This one seems obvious, but it remains amazing to me how many guys want to crowd a woman’s 18” of “personal space” sooner than later, and especially how many guys want to “escalate kino” early and often. When you get right down to it, the desire to maintain some distance between yourself and someone you barely know isn’t exactly gender specific. All you’ve really got to do here is remember that women are HUMAN just like you. If she’s attracted to you, great. Make her feel SAFE with you also and it’ll be HER idea to get close to you before you know it (perhaps literally). That’s a guarantee…unless you’re dealing with a truly desperate woman who has little if any self-respect…or dignity. And what do you want with her, anyway? But if you get greedy here and you’ll blow it. And that’s also a guarantee.