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Saturday, March 1, 2014

Should You Mirror What She Does?
Guys often think they have to act the same way the woman is acting, in order for her to be attracted.
Often books on "rapport" suggest rapport-building techniques such as matching a person's voice tone and their pattern of speech, and mirror their gestures, etc.
The idea is that they will think : "You are like me, I like you more".
This can be effective in business situations, but not in attraction.
You can sometimes use this is she feels uncomfortable for some reason, and or at a later stage after you have attraction, but as a rule, not at the beginning of an interaction.
Much better is to understand when SHE is trying to get rapport with you.
If she is showing signs of rapport, mirroring you, synchronizing her body with yours, touching you, laughing with you, then you are on the right track.

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