Discretion and Dating Multiple Women

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We all go through less 'serious' stages of dating in our lives where we are seeing more than one woman... these can be temporary before any relationship develops into something more important when you're playing the field, or just a way of life for you. If you think about it, you'll also realize that many men attract a lot of drama and disruption into their lives when they are dating multiple women and it goes wrong. Affairs and getting caught cheating. Friends with benefits that want more. Women getting upset with you in general. One of the keys to eliminating all of this trouble when you're dating more than one girl is 'discretion'.You never talk about the fact that you have multiple girls in your life. You don't talk about it to guy friends - nor to girl friends. You make sure the girls you are seeing know that. For her to stay in the relationship you have, to not get hurt or angry, discretion is essential. She has to feel safe, and discretion makes her reputation safe. You let her know this by:

1) Acting discreetly. Actions speak louder than words - if she hears you being in-discrete about something else in your life, she is going to assume you do the same with your relationship.

2) Letting her know you act discreetly. By subtly indicating you value discretion about subjects in general when the subject is relevant. For example when she asks you about something you're being discreet about say "I don't want people going around knowing my business."

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Should You Give a Girl Space Between Orgasms?

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Tori Black, a porn stars, believes it is essential to give your girl multiple orgasms in each sex session to keep the relationship strong. While she admits she is not typical, and girls differ, she says she can have up to 25 orgasms in one love making session. So if you are giving your girl multiple orgasms do you need to put space between orgasms? Or can you keep stimulating her continuously? Depending on how hard she comes she may not want you to touch her. You need to let her vagina calm down. To do this you stop stimulating the vagina and kiss her neck, tell her how sexy she is. You let her be still in the moment. When she has calmed down you can go back to giving her oral sex again and then back to penetration. You can also mix this up. It is not always necessary to restart with oral. The rule is that if you keep stimulating her she will want more. But you should not be pile driving to give her orgasms on top of each other. You keep the stimulation up, but you back off. 

If You Do This You Are Already Manipulating Women

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Here is the fundamental truth regarding most male-female interactions: WE ALL WANT SOMETHING. The biggest lie you can tell yourself when you approach a woman who you're romantically and/or sexually interested in is that you "don't want anything" from this woman.

 YES YOU DO. Just about everybody who we interact with on a regular or semi-regular basis, we have a need and/or desire that we would like to see fulfilled and satisfied. What we desire can be something intangible such as flattering attention or respect. It can be something tangible such as a monetary favor or an offer of employment. Bottom line ... very rarely, if ever, do you approach a woman "just for the heck of it."Now some people would argue that introducing the idea of having sex with a woman in your very first conversation with her is "socially inappropriate," or at minimum, representative of "bad manners." They would contend that this type of conversational behavior is not representative of a true "gentleman."

 I DISAGREE.In my opinion, there is a fine line difference between exhibiting behavior that is socially appropriate, and behavior that is phony and insincere. I think the former has value most of the time, but the latter leads to ineffective and unproductive relationships with women. I'm not at all suggesting that any man should be intentionally 'rude' or 'disrespectful' towards women. That won't get you anywhere. On the other hand though, you want to avoid making comments, and expressing desires and interests that are not representative of what you're REALLY thinking. Anytime you want something from someone, and you STRAIGHTFORWARDLY ask them for it, that would be representative of non-manipulative behavior.  But if I want something from you, and I attempt to flatter your ego first, treat you nicely, take you out to dinner, etc., THEN ask you for what I want ... that's being MANIPULATIVE. As a man, anytime you begin offering incentives and rewards in exchange for romantic and sexual companionship, you are engaging in manipulative game playing.  Similarly, anytime you lie to women about what you really want from them, and why you really want to share their company, you're engaging in manipulative head games. 

HAVE SOMETHING READY TO SAY

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• An indirect opener – You can approach the girl and ask her where something is like a coffee shop or landmark. An interesting study that was conducted in the book “Mating Intelligence Unleashed” said that most women prefer an indirect approach over a direct approach.

• A direct opener – A more direct approach would be telling her what you’re thinking… for example: “Excuse me, I just saw you from over there and I had to come over and say something because you’re very cute”.

• A forced IOI – This is known as a warm opener and something I use all the time which works perfect in clubs/bars. You basically make eye contact with the girl, do something that will make her smile and then approach her when you see her give you a positive reaction.

BE AUTHORITATIVE AND CONFIDENT

The quickest way to kill the approach is to act needy, desperate or nervous. Remember that the girl doesn’t know what you’re going to say. So you need to convey your interest with eye contact and body language.

• Keep strong eye contact – Strong eye contact is a huge attraction builder. Coupled with a lower voice tonality and speaking more slowly, you can speed up attraction, comfort and trust.

• Maintain good body language – By puffing your chest out, pulling your shoulders back and maintaining an alpha stance you will come across as a leader or authoritative person, so she will be more susceptible… meaning she’ll stay and listen.

BE TIME CONSCIOUS

Letting her know that you’re a busy guy does two things… the first is she won’t feel the need to run away because you’re bothering her and secondly it will cause an attraction spike that will intrigue her.

• Throw in a time constraint – The very first thing you want to do is say something like “I’ve only got a minute because I’m meeting my friends, but I had to say…”.

• Keep them talking with a “I’ve gotta go…” line – This keeps them talking without feeling the need to end the conversation first. It’s amazing how long you can do this for. So just keep saying “One more thing before I go…”

So that’s it Alphas, just use this simple secrets that I use to approach any type of girl in both the daytime and evening (clubs, bars etc). Now go out and put these to good use… practice, practice…. practice.