TAKE NOTE ALPHA CASANOVAS: TOP 10 TURN OFFS FOR WOMEN!!!

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1. BAD SHOES

Women LOVE shoes as you should already know, but it doesn’t just stop with their own. They really like a man in good shoes. So treat yourself to an expensive pair of shoes that will last you awhile.

2. BAD BODY ODOR (AND BREATH)

There’s nothing worse than when you’re talking to someone and you get a whiff of their armpit or stanky bad breath. Make sure you’re fresh at all times, even if you’re just popping out for a minute.

3. GETTING TOO DRUNK

I know I know, alcohol can sometimes help with the nerves. But it can also backfire too, women hate it when a guy gets too drunk and starts slurring his words and spitting slobber all over her mid conversation.

4. GETTING SHOT DOWN PUBLICLY

Women like a guy who is persistent, but when you’re blatantly being shot down in a bar or club and everyone can see. That’s a huge turn off, so make sure you’re discreet with the shoot downs.

5. SPACE INVADING

Give her some space man! Use kino and build some sexual tension before you start getting up in her face. She’ll get creeped out quickly if you’re too touchy feely in the beginning and you’ll be labeled a creep.

6. BEING NEGATIVE

Do you moan a lot? Well you need to stop yourself dude, it’s not enjoyable for anyone when you’re around a negative person. You don’t need to be some crazy positive tree hugger, but you should also keep the bad vibes to yourself.

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7. CRAPPY FRIENDS

Have some buddies that make you look bad? This isn’t good dude, you need to either ditch them or call them out for screwing up your interactions with women.

8. INSECURITY 

Women seriously hate guys that are insecure, because most women are insecure themselves. If they go out with a guy who is insecure, it’s just going to make them feel twice as bad, so start working on your confidence.

9. BEING OVERSENSITIVE

Don’t be so damn defensive all the time, it makes you look like a child. Women like REAL men, so if she gives you a shit test… give her one right back! Stand your ground in a witty cocky funny way, not in a little boy running home to his mummy way.

10. COCKY ATTITUDE

Girls cannot stand cocky arrogant guys, it will turn them off faster than a light switch. So ease up on the narcissistic personality bro, it just doesn’t help.

So those are the biggest turn offs for women. If you can stay away from each of those AND run some solid game, you’ll be just fine.

The Human Mating Dance....The Right Dance

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Male animals go through precise mating movements, without rehearsing them. This is called the "mating dance". Female animals can formulate judgments on whatever they do, and from there evaluate their genetic potential and decide who to mate with. This is not learned but hardwired from birth. There is such a thing as a human mating dance, or in other words, specific courtship moves that humans go through, just like animals do. Most men, including those who are pretty good with women, are unaware of this process. Most women, on the other hand, understand this. The key in this human dance is to learn how to use your body, and how to go from one step to the next.

CREATING YOUR OWN REALITY THAT GIRLS LOVE

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1. YOUR EGO

An ego can be a very detrimental part of your personality. It can ruin your chances with a girl, screw up a good set set and spark of poisonous characters traits like jealousy, anger and frustration.

You have to work on suppressing your “dominant” emotions, the
ones that are killing your game.

If not, you will never be able to control your frame and the feelings of others around you.

SO HOW DO YOU WORK ON YOUR EGO?

• Stop complaining – Complaining will feed your ego and you’ll start subscribing to your own delusional beliefs. Work on your inner thoughts and stop yourself from complaining. I guarantee you’ll notice a HUGE improvement in how you think.

• Be grateful for where and who you are – Look at the positives in every situation and focus on those. The negatives will only fuel your anger and ignite your ego.

• Accept failure – Have you heard of the expression “just roll with the punches’ before? Well this is the mindset you should adopt when shit goes bad. Your life will consist of failures, triumphs and everything in between. So the next time shit goes bad.. accept that it’s life and just deal with it. Shit stuff and pain is temporary.

2. BAD VIBES, THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS

Your frame will be interpreted by everyone who comes into contact with you. This means they will feel everything you’re feeling just by the way you are acting/speaking.

If you’re in a group and you feel awkward… they will feel awkward too.

If you feel sad, they will feel uncomfortable.

If you feel angry, they will feel edgy.

Whatever you are feeling in the moment will be projected through your body language, thoughts and words… so snap the FUCK out of it and project positive, fun, happy vibes man!

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3. YOUR REALITY

Frame control is simply controlling the dominant emotion of an interaction. In that moment, THAT emotion you are feeling is YOUR REALITY.

If it’s the most dominant emotion in your group, then you are controlling the reality of that group.

Sounds a bit woo woo, I know but let me put it this way.

Imagine Eminem walking into a club in your area.

What do you think will happen?

Everyone would want to be near him, speak to him, take a picture with him… if you’re a girl, you’d want to sleep with him.

Now he’s controlling that environment without worrying about what to say to women, what lines he’s going to use, how his body language looks, if he’s spiked her sexual attraction for him.

None of that stuff.

All he’s concerned about is himself.

LAST WORD ON STATUS

I want to be clear on what high-status is, because you can work in a restaurant and still convey a high status personality… I’m serious.

The energy you give off to a girl through frame control is what makes you a high status guy. It’s not necessarily down to money, friends, social circles or anything else (but they can certainly help).

If you’re a manager of a restaurant, who is in charge of 30 staff, taking in the money, talking to the CEO, leading your team, telling people off, giving praise to others and just making sure everything is in order… you’re a high status male in that particular scenario.

The girls who are working under you, will be attracted to you based on the fact that you’re in charge, you call the shots and you run the show.

Alphas Always Meet the Promoters...I mean Alwaysss!!!

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In bars and clubs, the product is the crowd inside. Cool people, cool product. Dorks inside, bad product. You don't need to meet the owner or a club. He is in it for the money and won't come out that much. A lot of times people don't even know who the owner is when he walks in. The person you need to know is the small promoter that works for the big clubs - he is low on the food chain in terms of business, BUT he is the master of social networking and he has a lot of status in the club. These guys are organized and socially smart. They are given tools (coupons, free bottles, free tables) to show their value and make the place look cool. They invite cool people and good looking chicks to get a nice vibe that will attract actual paying customers. They need you more than you need them - they need phone numbers to call, they need to get people through the door. The prerequisite is: you need to present enough social value to be invited. How? With your clothing, your body language, and by bringing hot women with you down the line. You need enough social value that promoters recognize you as an asset and not a liability. They need to think "Here is a cool guy, he is someone who can join my parties, make the night better, he won't make me look stupid or bring lame people in".

Alphas...Beware of the Mirage of Control!!

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"You can't control others, you can only control yourself. I know that if my woman were to violate any of my serious boundaries, I'd be GAAHHHN. Boom, field time again, and I'd enjoy that equally as much as being in the relationship. Not that I'd be entertaining negative outcome scenarios, but were it to happen, I'd have no problem getting back out there and letting the warrior loose. None. The game will always be a home for me." .."Most guys just 'settle down' with the first girl they're semi­-attracted to who will agree to [have sex with] them, and then when the relationship goes to [hell], they scratch their heads, wonder why, and REPEAT ad nauseam. You can't change people, you can only preselect to the best of your ability and see what happens."

You should always keep in mind in relationships:

1. You can't control others: Other people will always do what they want to do (eventually). You can subdue that for a while, but eventually they will resent it and do what they wanted at first, and you will have a damaged relationship on your hands. This also means "You can't change people."

2. You need to preselect from the start: Since women don't change, they will remain what they were when you met them. When you start dating her you are choosing her as she is. You have to know what is most important to you in a woman and what type of relationship you want in advance. You have to select your partners based on these realizations. Thinking you can train someone to change later is not realistic.

3. Most guys (and girls) settle for too little: The reason most relationships don't work (including the 50% divorce rate) is that people settle for less than their 'preselection' standards and needs. They notice things that aren't right but they get into the relationship because they don't have other options. They don't want to be alone. So they settle for less. Whilst learning to improve your dating skills can't give you control. It can improve your options. It can put off that temptation to settle and give you options that fit your needs.

Alphas Always Lean Back When Talking to Women

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Always lean back when talking with women. Watch in restaurants as insecure guys lean forward, with their head on their hands, talking to their dates. While the women lean back with this confident look, kind of aloof and looking around, the guy is leaning in, trying to get some eye-contact to confirm he is doing ok. On the other hand, you can also see situations when the man is leaning back, confident, powerful, having that "I am keeping my power for myself" vibe, and the woman is leaning forward, because she is engaged, she is enjoying it, she wants more. Lean back more often so you are not physically saying "I need you".

Text Before You Call = More Chances

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"The first time you text [a woman you have met], you will do it around noon. If she replies, text her a few more times, but be sure that the last text sent is from her to you. Leaving things open-ended like that creates suspense and subcommunicates un-neediness. Whether she replies or does not reply, you will call her that evening. The point of the texting around mid day is to create suspense and keep you in her mind, so she is more likely to pick up the phone in the evening. Always text a few times the same day before calling. This increases the chances that she will pick up. Leave at least a few hours between the last text she sent you and the time you call her (un-needy)."