HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL THE RIGHT WAY

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If you suffer from approach anxiety, then you need to get that handled before attempting the approach, otherwise you’ll just come across as a quivering wreck and will get shot down in no time. Before I get into the 3 secrets of how to approach a girl… I first want to give you a good and bad example of a typical approach, this can be played out in most situations (daytime, club etc).

THE STRUCTURE OF A GOOD APPROACH

1. You see a girl (force an IOI or go in cold)
2. You open with a direct or indirect based on the situation
3. She responds positively for the first 10 seconds
4. You keep the conversation going, introduce very light kino, build rapport and develop a strong trustworthy connection.
5. You instant date her or number close

Sounds easy enough right? Well yes, but it can be tougher when you don’t know the steps/secrets.

THE STRUCTURE OF A BAD APPROACH

1. You see a girl… think about what to say… crap your pants… and eventually go over
2. You open her with pathetic body language and fumble over your words
3. You don’t make eye contact… she takes a step back, thinks you’re an odd ball and makes an excuse to leave in hurry (or just flat out ignores you).
4. Your confidence takes another hit… you go home and watch porn whilst hating life.

Got the picture? Ok cool, so let me show you the best way to approach a girl… a way that keeps her interested long enough for you to build attraction and go for the close.