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2. Practice talking to strangers. Ask random people at that location for directions. Start
learning how to strike up a conversation and engage everyone you can. Once this
feels natural, it will be easy to do so with that strikingly beautiful woman
you just saw.
3. When you see that
woman, or any other woman you think you’d like to meet, walk over with a
friendly smile on your face.
4. Ask her for directions to somewhere you know is nearby. Follow that with a question that ties into the place you
are headed. For instance, if you ask directions to a bookstore, then follow up
by saying this: “Great. Thanks. By the way, I notice you are carrying a bunch
of books. Can you recommend a good book for my little sister? She’s turning
19.”
5. Pay attention to her body language. If she seems antsy, stop there and move on. If she has
open, patient body language and seems friendly, then continue the conversation.
Ask her something to do with relationships. For instance, you might say, “I saw
online this morning that (whatever relationship issue you read, but probably
avoid ones about approaching a girl) and wondered if other people thought that
was off base, too?” (Or some other variation of this. You might ask advice for
a friend, for example.)
6. If she’s sitting down,
sit down beside her. Start by saying you can
only stay a minute because you are meeting a friend in a few minutes. Ask her
name, but don’t offer yours. Don’t ask boring, inane questions, such as what
she does for a living or where’s she from. Learn how to ask open-ended
questions that someone can’t respond to with a simple yes or no. This is good
conversational technique to know.
7. Tease her so you create a connection. Make sure it is gentle teasing with a smile on your face
to show you are kidding. Keep the conversation topics light hearted.
8. Talk about your favorite places in the city, such as a bar or
club and say why you like it there. Then, offhandedly mention, “You’d probably love it. We
should go next week.” Hand her your phone and say, “Put your number in.” That’s
it.
During any of these
steps if you encounter natural resistance, break them down. If you can’t do
that, time to move on. There are a lot of other fish in the sea. Don’t forget
that when it comes to approaching women, practice
makes perfect. So, get out there today and give it a shot.
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