Life is too short to be a wussy

Be a MAn of Desire,,,,Life is Too Short to be a Wussy

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Labels Limit Your Relationships Alphas!!!
Society likes to put labels on people.
For example, you are a 'lover', you are a 'girlfriend', you are a 'wife', you are a 'mother'.
With each of them we are socially conditioned to attach different mindsets and identities.
We generally do not think of a 'wife' as hot or sexy. We don't tend to identify the 'mother' of our children with hot passionate sex.
Because of this it inhibits the passion we feel towards our women. And the passion in our relationships.
These identities don't allow us to look at a woman in the same way as when we first met her. When we had a raw physical attraction towards her.
Or towards a woman that we don't know (some men like to fantasize about strippers, models or other 'hot' women).
Throw these labels and your ideas of these identities away!
Don't imprison your natural sex drive or restrict your behaviors because of these labels. You will demote your sex life, and as a consequence, your relationship too.
To realize the full potential of your relationships, you MUST be as sexual with your 'girlfriend', or your 'wife' and the 'mother' of your children as you would with a woman when you first met. Or the women you have fantasized about.

Monday, October 21, 2013

The Top 5 Cities In The World For Beautiful Women…

Kiev, Ukraine – Rating 3.5/5

Kiev usually turns up at the top of “hottest girls in the world” lists. I’ve been there ten times or so and the women are stunning. On the plus side, the high end night clubs will have lots of incredible women.
On the downside, the foot-traffic in the city centre is nothing like a 5th Avenue in NYC or an Oxford St in London… so although the percentage of hot girls is very high, the frequency is not that great.
Another problem is the lack of good English speakers, you will need a little bit of Russian to be able to talk to most girls… or your own private translator walking with you ;-) In the Summer, the Ukranians (and Russians) head to the resort town of Odessa…

Odessa, Ukraine – Rating 3.0/5

…and you should probably follow them there and find a city with incredible women all day long on the main street or at the beach clubs and all night long in the night-clubs.
Odessa is never in the top 10 lists which prove they are written by guys that don’t have a clue, it really is one of the best places on earth in the summer.
The only downside with Odessa being tons of Italian tourists which makes the girls slightly less receptive to foreigners. Also to note – Ukranians are going to be a little racist generally to black and Asian guys.

Rio, Brazil – Rating 4.0/5

Brazilian girls are famous the world over. Rio is a beautiful city and I have spent 6 months there in total. I really love it, the food is great, the people are the friendliest in the world, and its a great place to spend time.
The matter of the girls is a little controversial. Some guys will love the Brazilian women, others won’t. It’s a matter of taste. They do have very pretty faces, but the thing that you might like, or not, is that they are bigger.
Brazilian guys like big asses, so the girls basically eat a lot, and then go to the gym to try and get some tone too. The result are big women, few petite girls, few girls with slim flat stomachs, but plenty of big asses. If that sounds good to you, then you should probably add a .5 or 1.0 to the rating above.
In terms of “game” the girls are easy to talk to, generally speak pretty good English, are friendly, but that doesn’t mean they are easy and have sex at the drop of a hat. Maybe a better option than Rio?  Talk to Brazilian guys and they all tell you to head South, specifically to “Floripa”.
Florianopolis is famous in Brazil as the place with then hottest women. If you are a ginger guy or very pale, you are winning in Brazil, girls will come and ask you where you are from and be into you!  I look kinda Brazilian so I wasn’t so exotic ;-)

Stockholm, Sweden  - Rating 3.5/5

Always in the top 10 lists, and this one, like Kiev, deserves to be in there. Compared the Kiev, the girls are less naturally beautiful – you’ll see tons of fake blondes, lots of fake tan, and more make-up.
The slightly less beautiful looks are compensated for by the fact that they all speak perfect English, and are very easy to talk to, and actually pretty easy to sleep with ;-) The Swedish guys are very shy, so being a confident guy who actually talks to them will pay off big time.
They like guys with darker looks, brown eyes and darker skin will go down well. The centre is really good for day and night game. Watch out! in Summer, Stockholm can be a bit of a ghost town, especially during “mid-summer” when everyone goes to little islands.

Moscow, Russia – Rating 3.5/5

This place is my home when I am single. Guys here will say the girls are not as beautiful as Ukranians, and maybe that is true, but the sheer size of the city and foot traffic mean you see more beautiful girls here than anywhere else in the world.
In Summer, in a mall, the park, or sitting at a Cafe in Kamergersky Pereulouk (like I am as I write this) you’ll see more beautiful girls in 2 hours than you will in London in 2 months. Seriously.
The standard of English is pretty good generally, though you will meet girls who speak no English. The girls are very approachable, very honest, straightforward, and like a guy who is normal and dresses well. Not too much to ask. They will not play games, cancel dates, or be flakey.
Moscow isn’t overrun with foreigners, so you are pretty exotic and exciting. The girls are not as “easy” as Swedish, English, American girls but they are worth the wait and the dates. As well as being the most beautiful, they make excellent girlfriends and potential wives. You can easily find plenty of really GOOD girls who don’t sleep around and even don’t drink or party.
The winter is obviously freezing, but the summer is great. The city is super expensive, a little more so than London or New York, but is very safe in the centre. Oh…and the nightclubs… the best in the world. Packed with beautiful girls, the first times in a Moscow club your jaw will be on the floor.
You can find whatever you want, blonde, brunette, Kazakhstanis (that look Asian). If you like slightly fat, or let’s say ‘curvy’ girls, then you will kill it here because the Russian guys generally only like thin girls. The slightly chunk girls are totally left on the shelf and these girls will be sooo happy to speak to you.

Sunday, October 20, 2013

Windows of Opportunity with Women
"Women want to see if [...] you know what to do when you see them. But they can't tell you what to do because then you won't be dominant. They would be controlling the situation. Plus, she has to maintain her social reputation. Ingeniously and probably unconsciously, women will present neutral "windows of opportunity." You can typically feel a 'window' or signal.
 You'll notice her making slightly more effort to interact with you than is necessary. Her calibration will seem "off". She may linger for half a second longer when her friends walk to the other side of the bar. She may look at you a beat longer than would be 'normal' after just meeting you. She may explain herself a little more than is necessary when you ask a question. She wants to see if you are interested in her character, and if you will take the lead and isolate the two of you for a more focused conversation. A woman uses "Windows of Opportunity" tests because she wants to see if you are used to women being attracted to you and if you're able to escalate. The best way to pick up on these signals is to always assume attraction."

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

How to Not Run Out of Things To Say

It's one of the worst feelings you can have. You've done the hard work. You've approached boldly, head held high. You've  gotten her laughing, gotten her smiling, maybe even gotten her touching you a little and... 

The conversation totally loses its steam. Everything just falls flat. You find yourself scrambling for the right thing to say, palms sweaty, a lump in your throat, the feeling of a drowning man overcoming you. Ultimately, you beat a hasty retreat, one that leaves you with a strong sense of diminished confidence that colors your entire night. Why? Because you've run out of things to say. This happens to just about every man at one point or another. But what if I told you that you didn't ever have to run out of things to say? That this was, in fact, a very simple problem with some very simple solutions? Best of all, you can start putting your new found skills into action starting tonight for an increased success rate with women. Read on, gentlemen, to find out how it's done.

Why You're Running Out of Things to Say

But why are you running out of things to say? What is it that's making conversation get stuck in the mud?

Closed-Ended Questions: Closed-ended questions are conversation killers. They require short answers and do not leave the door open to further conversation on the subject. What's worse, too many of them in a row can be tiresome.
Too Much Personal Info: When people are out and about, requesting too much personal information up front can be a bit unsettling. This makes the other person shut down, making it harder for you to effectively continue the conversation.
You Talk Too Much: Maybe the problem is that you have too much to stay. You're not giving her room to speak, while also emptying your verbal bank account too quickly.
You Haven't Planned: The best routines are like the best of anything: They have a plan. Do you know what you're going to say to a woman when you go up to her? Have you thought about where you want the conversation to go and how you're going to get it there? If not, you're a general without a plan of attack.

These are simple things that nearly every man has done at some point or anything in his nightlife. Now that you know what you might be doing wrong, it's time to start looking for strategies to correct these errant behaviors. 

Read on to learn more about what you can do to keep a conversation going.

Food for Thought: How Conversations Thrive

It's easy to keep conversation flowing and not run out of things to say. So easy, in fact, that you're going to kick 

yourself for not picking up on any of these simple tips on your own.
* Open-Ended Questions: The opposite of a closed-ended question is, of course, an open-ended one. Don't ask her where what she does for a living. Instead, ask her how she figured out what she wanted to do for a living. Don't ask her where she lives, ask her why she moved to the neighborhood she did. This gives her more room to talk about herself, something that women love to do.
* Keep It Light: Keep conversation very light when you first start talking to her. In fact, when you first start talking to her, you probably want to emphasize joking around and playfully teasing her over "getting to know you" type conversation. This will open her up for more serious conversation later.
* Let Her Do the Talking: Letting her do a lot of the talking keeps the conversation flowing. It also takes a lot of pressure off of you. What's more, it allows you to really create a connection with her, turning you into the one guy at the bar that she remembers because you were the one who let her express herself.
* Have a Plan: Again, it's important to have a plan of attack when you first start talking to a woman. You don't need to have every single word and response of a conversation mapped out, but you should have a general direction in mind.
* Don't Be Afraid to Walk Away: One of the biggest mistakes that men make when it comes to women is hanging on one all night. Rather, walk away when things are at a high point or close to it. Take a second to go grab a drink, work the room and check back in with your friends. This helps you avoid the awkwardness that comes along with a conversation petering out, while also increasing your social value by being the 
type of man who isn't tying himself to one woman all night.
Hit the bar tonight or the streets and start putting this stuff into practice. Then become the Alpha man who absolutely, positively never runs out of things to say.

Monday, October 14, 2013

Sex Isn't the End Goal!!!!

Lots of guys consider that sex is the end goal of meeting a woman. That it is the end of the seduction. You should not. You should consider it to be the beginning. Sex is a fundamental part of a relationship with any women. Once in a relationship, whether it be an exclusive traditional relationship, friend with benefits or other type, sex is a key part of the attraction in the relationship. Bad sex leads to lower attraction and her drifting away from you. Good sex deepens and strengthens the relationship increasing her attraction and connection with you. This is for one simple reason: During sex it is impossible to shield our emotions. It is while having sex that a woman exposes herself to the deepest intimacy with you. Make sex the beginning of your seduction with a woman. Learn to enhance your relationship with great sex.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Okey ALpHAS...What Do you Do After Sex if you Want a Relationship?

Simple: Call the next day. This is an important call, and should not be awkward for her.Here are some things to keep in mind:
  • Don't call to "check in" with her.
  • Don't refer to having had sex with her.
  • Call because something funny happened that you want to tell her about or for any other reason why you might have called her even if you hadn't had sex the previous day.
  • Be the same natural, fun, and interesting person you were before you slept with her.
  • Don't let awkward silences develop, or sound nervous or talk too much or too quickly.
By calling her the next day, but not making a big deal of it, you will help to set the frame that it wasn't just a one night stand, without putting pressure on the situation (which is a bad thing).