Life is too short to be a wussy

Be a MAn of Desire,,,,Life is Too Short to be a Wussy

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Do Things that Put a Smile on Your Face First

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"When dealing with women do the things that put a smile on your face first."
 
This is not what most men do. They try to do things that the women likes when they are with her. Unfortunately you are likely to communicate the dullest part of you like this.
 
If you are doing what you enjoy doing, you are living a cool life and you are enthusiastic about it, people are drawn to you.
 
Enthusiasm is contagious. If you are interested in what you are doing. Women will be interested also.
 
You could have some really dorky hobbies. Whether it is comic books or video games. It's not important.
 
What is important is the level of enthusiasm you have about them. And that you communicate it.
 
You have to be proud of everything about you - don't have any regrets. When you are with women, talk about the things that interest you, do the things that interest you. This will allow you to show your passion and enthusiasm for life.
 
Enthusiasm and passion are very important parts of your identity that convey attractive qualities to women.

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

The Man Initiates Sex

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Women love sex.
Which is not what social conditioning and the media tells you or how most men were taught as they grew up.
Most men have been raised to be proper polite gentlemen, and have been taught that to suggest sex to a woman would insult her because it would insinuate that she is a slut.
For women, sex is largely mental and emotional, and about being "taken" and "ravaged."
That does not mean that women want to be raped. NOT! Rape destroys a woman's sexuality for life.
But in the context of consent, mental stimulation, rapport, and trust, women love to be taken and ravaged... it makes them feel feminine and beautiful.
Women are however also victims of social programming.
Even though they love sex, most of them would never admit it to a stranger. It would make them appear to be a slut. And it would invite advances from men that objectify women.
So most women are sexually submissive. They do not initiate sex. Instead, they respond to their man when he initiates. And most women prefer it that way.
In fact women rarely suggest it because that would define them as a slut.
You need to break down hindering false beliefs about women and sex because they will hold you back. Replace those beliefs with beliefs that are empowering because they are based on reality.
As a man you can't be shy about sex. Because she most likely will be. You have to take the lead and initiate first. Because she most likely won't.
As a man you can't be shy about sex. Because she most likely will be. You have to take the lead and initiate first. Because she most likely won't.

Monday, January 27, 2014

Why is She Testing You?

If you perceive her tests as playful and cute, they will often turn out harmless. If, on the other hand you perceive her tests as being scary and intimidating, then that is what they will become!
Women test your frame to find out if you are used to women liking you, if you try to make others feel good about themselves and their contributions and if you feel the need to impress others.
They also test to see if you feel guilty about your sexual desire, which would imply that you don't offer much in the bedroom.
She needs to know if you have a mind geared for survival. Do you get distracted by the opinions of others? Do you feel threatened by women? Do other men make you nervous? Are you emotionally unstable, causing you to be unduly affected by circumstances?
So instead of asking you, she tests your focus, your reactions, and gauges your intention and your personal beliefs. She watches you and feels you. She infers things about your character instantly, based on unconscious and rather ingenious intuition.
She is wired for this. From the moment she is aware of your existence, she is screening your character.
This is why merely knowing techniques doesn't get a person very far.
A weak and submissive man who memorizes routines is still a weak and submissive man."

Beware of Emotional Hijacks

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Emotions aren't a choice. They are just running in your brain.
 
Your brain creates the illusion that you are "FREE".
 
But, in fact, we are run by our emotions.
 
When you are feeling emotional about something when you are in a relationship with a woman. Avoid making decisions in that moment when you are feeling emotional (whether it be anger, jealousy, fear, sadness or even happiness).
 
The stronger the emotion, the more important that you avoid acting on it at that time.
 
The reason is that strong emotions hijack our thinking process. In many cases you are simply responding to millions of years old emotional programming or to your own past experiences when you act while feeling strong emotions. You are repeating patterns of behavior that can give you the opposite result of what you would like.
 
Worst of all, your emotions will rationalize any decision or action you make when under their influence to cover your emotional tracks. So you won't even be aware of having been driven by emotions at the time. Spooky isn't it...
 

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Can women really sense if a man is desperate!!!

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The secret is really to NOT pretend that you’re not hungry. We all know that’s impossible. Women DO sense this and they DO avoid men with that rabid scent of "gotta get laid" just as much as men avoid the women with that rabid scent of "gotta get married."
But just because you’re hungry doesn’t mean you can only have ONE kind of food.
Wouldn’t it be nuts to say, “I’m starving to death! I haven’t had a bite to eat in 3 days!”
“Well, here, have some of my chicken sandwich.”
“Oh... Sorry, I only eat Pizza. Do you have any pizza? I gotta have some pizza!”
That would seem ridiculous, right?
But the same thing applies to women.
If you’re starving for sex, you’re not really looking at the big picture. You’ve just become a slave to your own genitals.
You can “feed” this hunger by using your sex drive to push you into new experiences in life, such as widening your social circle, trying a new way to meet women (such as the “multiple streams of female income” that I teach men how to leverage in my programs.)
Saying that you can only get fulfillment by getting a woman in your life is narrow-focused and short-sighted. If you find the things in life that REALLY fulfill you, women will realize that your hunger is not going to consume THEM.
Which is why women avoid these men.
You see, every women knows that behind a man starving for sex is a guy who hasn’t found his calling, or his Alpha Manhood. And she will not be able to trust him until he does.
But if he’s learned the secret of finding his "nutrition" in many other areas, she’ll know he’s stable and trustworthy.
A man's sex drive is one of the most powerful forces in the universe. Channeling that drive into other areas of your life will absolutely help you get rid of that "hungry" and desperate vibe.
If you’re a Hungry Guy - and we all have been at some point - the answer is NOT in chasing after women as the only path to your satisfaction.
The answer is completing your life so that when you’re with a woman, there could be a dozen just-as-cool things you could be doing at that moment.
THAT is when women will really take notice of you.
Because it's really not "hunger." It's ENERGY that you have not tapped into in the right ways to move your forward in the other areas of your life that you've been neglecting.
When you hold this energy in, you'll get emotionally constipated, which is part of that "X factor" you mentioned in your letter.
Unfocused light is useless. But focus that light into one coherent beam and you have a laser.
Let your energy out and push you toward feeding your desires with other achievements than women.
And I can guarantee you that the women will want to come along for that ride...

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Why “text conversations” Annoy Her… and what to do instead

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I want to talk to you about TEXTING  with girls...Because most men use text messages DEAD WRONG. And they make one of these three common mistakes:


1. Totally boring her (and even annoying her) by sending dry, logical, and un-original texts.


2. Capture her attention but then spin their wheels going nowhere until the 

attraction fizzles out..

3. Or spend months playing “textual grabass” with her, all the while she’s f**king some other guy.


Here is a true but unfortunate fact:


When a woman gives you her phone number you have a small window of opportunity 

to turn that number into a meet-up, sex, or a relationship…Every second that goes by… that window begins closing and your chances of ever getting her out begins to quickly disappear. Here is another fact:

The next step can only come in person. This is where the majority of men mess up. You might think that having a handful of “text conversations” is helping your cause…But it’s not. There is a tiny little voice in every woman’s head that tells her “If he was THE ONE” then it would have happened already…” Women desperately want to believe that when there is “chemistry” they’ll be swept away…This is why when you engage in “logical” back and forth conversation with a woman over text…

You’re kissing your chances goodbye. (Poof! Gone...)
So what should you do instead? It’s pretty simple. After sending a couple “radar” texts just to get her thinking about you…Each of your following texts should 
then be specifically designed to lead toward a meet-up.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

The BEST Way To Give A Girl The First Kiss?

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Let's make this happen for YOU
You would like to make the first kiss - with ANY girl - absolutely mind-blowing for her. This is good. Women judge a guy on how good his sex will be, based on a few things. Some of them are:
* His body language?
* Can he dance?
* How FREE is he? Does he not give a fvck?
* Is he preselected? 
A good first kiss can take complete control of a girl and send her off into an unknown world of sexual ecstasy and KY-jelly. A bad first kiss can make her labia close up like a jacket zipper in winter.
The BIGGEST First-Kiss Mistake Is..
 You have no choice but be a MASTER with the first kiss. Anything less is garbage. So here's the biggest mistake most guys not on Team Capital make:
They think the first kiss is about TECHNIQUE. Good kissing actually has very little to do with technique. Keep your lips soft. Limit tongue. Model how she kisses. 
And understand "less is more".
The Secret Behind Every First-Kiss That
Leads To SEX..
In order for you to be a superior kisser, know this:
The real secret behind a good kiss is about Sexual TensionKnowing how to create it, deep inside of her, then....being able to play with it and amplify it,
until it becomes so STRONG that......she can't take it anymore. We call this point "crossing the Tension Threshold". At that point - most of the time - SHE'S the one 
making the first move, on the first kiss. Because it's simple:
Step 1. You create Sexual Tension inside of her.
Step 2. You play with it and amplify it so much that the emotion of it overrides her logical brain, and takes control of her thoughts..
Step 3. The Sexual Tension becomes too much for her, and in order to slice that tension, she does all kinds of things out of character, like lunging at your for the first kiss and reaching for your dick in public. This is REALITY for myself and most of the top guys on Team Capital. And soon, Mike, it shall be you too.
Do This Every Time..
For now though, here's a kissing tip that I trust you will never forget:
Think about it like this: Sexual Tension is amplified only when you "take away". 
When most guys get the first kiss, they try to stay there for as long as they can.
This is weak, desperate and KILLS all the tension. If you want her lunging for your dick (and not someone else's), you'd have better make yourself a master of Sexual Tension. Being the one to pull back first, after the first kiss,
is a KEY component of that. Got It? Cool? You'll GET IT and remember it from now on? Good. 

Why is She Testing You!!!

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"When you have a strong frame, other people tend to accept it.
 
If you perceive her tests as playful and cute, they will often turn out harmless. If, on the other hand you perceive her tests as being scary and intimidating, then that is what they will become!
 
Women test your frame to find out if you are used to women liking you, if you try to make others feel good about themselves and their contributions and if you feel the need to impress others.
 
They also test to see if you feel guilty about your sexual desire, which would imply that you don't offer much in the bedroom.
 
She needs to know if you have a mind geared for survival. Do you get distracted by the opinions of others? Do you feel threatened by women? Do other men make you nervous? Are you emotionally unstable, causing you to be unduly affected by circumstances?
 
If she were to ask you these things directly, she KNOWS you could lie.
 
So instead of asking you, she tests your focus your reactions, and gauges your intention and your personal beliefs. She watches you and feels you. She infers things about your character instantly, based on unconscious and rather ingenious intuition.
 
She is wired for this. From the moment she is aware of your existence, she is screening your character.
 
This is why merely knowing techniques doesn't get a person very far.
 
A weak and submissive man who memorizes routines is still a weak and submissive man."

Monday, January 13, 2014

It's Not Weak to Apologize - As Long as You Do it Right

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There is a lot of advice out there that tells men to be strong with women, and always be dominant. But this can go too far. And with the more confident (and better) women, it won't be put up with for long.
 
None of us are perfect. In a relationship there will always be times when you are wrong. When this happens, and you know you are in the wrong. Own up to it and apologize.
 
Here's how to apologize for something: Own up to what you did. Look her in the eye and say you're sorry (or "I was a jerk" or "I was an idiot" or whatever). Don't spend time explaining why you did it, or what your intentions were, or why what you did wasn't really all that bad.
 
If she continues to talk about it. Add this: "Look, I'm sorry. I apologize. I was being an idiot. It won't happen again. What more can I do to make you feel better about it now?".
 
Focus on her emotional state, not her logical processes. And don't dwell on the subject. It's not good for either of you or the relationship. Make each other feel better (good emotional state) and move on.

How to Attract a Woman with a Direct Approach

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Approaching a woman and saying "You're beautiful I really want to meet you." is the sort of thing you say in a direct approach to attract a woman. You make it clear from the start that you are interested in her.
 
Think about this in terms of the movies you've watched where the hero approaches the woman and opens his heart to her. He is direct and unapologetic. He tells her he likes her. He leaves himself completely vulnerable to her rejection.
 
Sound scary? Maybe. But it is also a very powerful way to attract women.
 
If you do it correctly, it will spark attraction with a woman. The intensity of the moment creates sexual tension between you and her. That sexual tension translates to romantic feelings if executed well.
 
To make this work you must be 'sincere' and 'intense' in your approach.
 
You do this by showing you are vulnerable and not trying to subtly cover up your direct approach.
 
If you smile, or talk before she responds, or don't hold eye contact. You are covering up your approach. You won't come across as sincere. And the intensity of the moment will be lost.
 
You will know you haven't come across as sincere and intense if the girl pulls away and laughs. This is how she releases the tension.

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Get good with women by having fun

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I can’t emphasize this enough.  It’s very hard to get good at something if practicing is no fun.  This is especially true in Love Systems, since having good energy, good body language, and sub-communications are so important.  If you’re not having fun, she won’t have fun talking to you, and you’ll have even less fun.  It’s a vicious circle. 
But it can be a virtuous circle if you are having fun – then women want to be a part of your energy.  So, find ways to make Love Systems fun for you: go to places you enjoy, with people you like. In addition to learning how to be a good wingman, play games with your wingmen to keep approaching fun. Don’t take yourself too seriously, allow yourself to be silly and make mistakes. Use silly openers just for the sake of having a good time. Fun is attractive.

Why so many men fail to get good with women...

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#1 is just human nature – people love success, but a lot of folks don’t want to put in the work.  They want the outcomes without going through the process.  Every day I meet people who want the big house, the expensive car, gorgeous women, but not everyone is willing to make it happen.  This is no different from playing the guitar or learning a foreign language.  Many start, but not everyone sticks with it long enough to master their new skills. 
This reminds of me of the Edward Harriman quote: “Much work is lost for the lack of a little more”.
#2 is different.  Unlike learning the guitar or another language or some other skill, learning how to attract women and Alpha Casanova is much more personal and emotional.  In a word, you’re dealing with your own vulnerability and ego and defenses.  Look, if you miss a note on the piano or mispronounce a word in your second language, most men can handle it.  Unless you’re a perfectionist, you’re really not going to beat yourself up over it or feel bad about yourself.
But with women, every mistake seems to lead to you getting negative feedback about yourself as a man.  It seems like real rejection by a real person (in a moment I’ll talk about why you shouldn’t look at things this way, but for now stick with me). This can lead to fear of rejection– studies show that social rejection and physical pain activate the same brain areas

Monday, January 6, 2014

"Go big or go home..."

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"Go big or go home..."
- Unknown

If you want to ensure that you have a successful 2014, this will be one of
the most important emails you read all year.

THIS YEAR YOU MUST DREAM BIG!!!
Fvck being mediocre.

Seriously, enough with that shit. I want way more for you even if you may
think that it's beyond you right now.

You see, sometimes really the only thing holding you back from huge
success is your own imagination of what's possible.

I mean if you have a plan, or a strategy then the sky is the limit.

You already have a strategy and a bunch of plans, techniques, ideas
and blueprints etc...

I give those to you in our conversations, and you'll get plenty more from
me throughout the year.

All you need is to have a big ass fvcking vision of how awesome and kick
ass you want your life and your success to be.

Think about it.

Nothing will make a life mediocre quicker than an absence of vision.

It's the difference between boys and men...

The difference between the job you hate, and the office on the corner
with the parking space and the name on the door...

It's the difference between a girl you're embarrassed to introduce to your
friends, and the catwalk model who's madly in love and devoted to you...

It's the difference between your business making 6 figures this year or
your business making 7 and 8 figures...

If you buy into what I'm telling you right now in roughly 360 days from you
reading these very words it will be the difference between 2013 and 2014...

Seriously my friend, you imagination will propel you to heights you can't
even imagine this year, as long as you simply want it.

Really really want the absolute best for yourself, your family, your friends,
your colleagues. Settle for nothing less and you will see a drastic
uplift in the quality of your life.

Even if you only get close to your dreams, it will be a damn sight better than
where you would end up otherwise.

So my final Kick Start tip for you this year is to shoot for the moon.

Even if you miss, you'll be among stars, and that ain't to shabby now is it?