"When dealing with women do the things that put a smile on your face first."
This is not what most men do. They try to do things that the women likes when they are with her. Unfortunately you are likely to communicate the dullest part of you like this.
If you are doing what you enjoy doing, you are living a cool life and you are enthusiastic about it, people are drawn to you.
Enthusiasm is contagious. If you are interested in what you are doing. Women will be interested also.
You could have some really dorky hobbies. Whether it is comic books or video games. It's not important.
What is important is the level of enthusiasm you have about them. And that you communicate it.
You have to be proud of everything about you - don't have any regrets. When you are with women, talk about the things that interest you, do the things that interest you. This will allow you to show your passion and enthusiasm for life.
Enthusiasm and passion are very important parts of your identity that convey attractive qualities to women.