Life is too short to be a wussy

Be a MAn of Desire,,,,Life is Too Short to be a Wussy

Monday, September 30, 2013

What To Say If She Has A Boyfriend...

Excellent Video!!!

Call Her On It...Alphas

Men too often "kiss up" to women, especially beautiful women. They are afraid to upset and lose the woman they are talking to. Even though a woman might act in a ridiculous fashion, many men will feel like they have to go along with it. This is bad for her, for you, and for the relationship between you.
Be different. Never let a woman act like a Brat without you calling her on it - in a cool, matter-of-fact way. Call women out on all of their messed up behaviors just like you would a guy friend or family member. Learn to tease and make fun of their bratty moments. Don't let them get away with everything just because they are "hot". They will NOT respect you for it - quite the contrary.

Friday, September 27, 2013

Changing to Become Good with Women is Hard, Make it Easier ALPHAS...

Getting good with women necessitates change. You will have to do things differently than before, become someone slightly different. However, change can be very difficult. Studies show that when doctors tell people that they need to "Change or Die" because of lifestyle behaviors that are affecting their health. 9 out of 10 times they don't change, and they die. Scary isn't it. Even faced with death we don't change most of the time. Here is a process that helps you to make change inevitable (and as a result the outcome of getting better with women). It sets up your environment to force an outcome that you want.
1. Identify something that you want to do (change) but can't get yourself to do it?
2. Think about why you aren't doing it? For example, why is it painful for you to do it - what is the reason behind your resistance to do it.
3. Now, find something that would be more painful than that. Now commit to endure it if you don't do it. One example that is popular is giving money to the George W. Bush foundation if you fail.
4. Tell all your friends about this commitment. To give you peer pressure to keep your word (which is proven to be one of the greatest motivators). Even better, give the money to someone you trust to be strong, and tell them to do it if you don't meet your goal (change) by a specified time.
This is an extremely effective method to change. You need to create the situation where something more PAINFUL will happen if you don't change.

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

How Beautiful Women Think!!!

Many "hot" women harbor a contempt for their beauty.
They are kept from living a real life and being closer to the real world simply because few people can relate to them "normally".
Beauty can be a curse because a woman rarely has anyone see her for who she truly is. Every man is interested in sleeping with her for her looks. This often leads to feelings of frustration.
Addressing this topic when speaking to her, done right, is VERY powerful.
It shows you have been around beautiful women and understand them at a core level.
It shows you won't chase them in a creepy way, or be too submissive to them just because they happen to be beautiful.
It shows you are different.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Alpha...What if She's Younger than You?

If you are or would like to date a girl younger than you the first thing to remember is to maintain the correct frame. This is a very common mistake amongst older guys. This means you should be thinking:

"The girl has to be mature enough to be with me..." not "I'm not young enough to be with her."

This is subtle. How you think translates unconsciously to your behaviors. If you don't have the correct frame you will sabotage yourself without you actually consciously thinking about it. Here are some examples of things you should and should not do to maintain this frame:
- DON'T try to impress them on their subjects such as latest music, DJs etc.
- DO rely on your maturity with things such as sophistication, life experience and sexual experience.
- DON'T be judgmental. For instance, don't say "That's what I used to do 20 years ago..." You will create a barrier between them and you.

The essence is to be yourself and emphasize the benefits of your maturity by talking about the topics you are interested in. She will find herself having to rise to your level of conversation, which will increase her attraction to you.

Monday, September 23, 2013

F + C = Sexual Attraction.... This is The Exact Equation For Female Attraction...

Most guys think they know how to be fun/playful, but they don't because there's a right way to do
it, and a wrong way. 
The wrong way is making fun of themselves to get a laugh. This is weak, low-status behavior that makes women zip their vaginas shut.  They might laugh, but they're really thinking about that other guy over there who they can't seem to figure out because he keeps teasing her and leaning back like he's not interested but then he asks her interesting, personal questions
and she can't quite figure it out.. And when I tell most guys they need to be a CHALLENGEthey take it to mean not to talk to the girl at all. Cool story bro. So you're going to get the girl by not talking with her at all? Being a challenge is an ART, something you'll begin to figure out now that your brain is aware that's the attitude it needs to display. Here's my general attitude when I'm attracting a girl:
"Well what do we have here... This little girl has no idea what kind of charming asshole she just met and how irresistible she's going to find my unique brand of teasing, sarcasm and pushing her away, mixed in with my piercing eye contact, deep, attentive insights and total, raw, blunt, playful, self-entertaining conversational freedom. I'm going to make her earn it, give her a little, then take it away and make her earn it even more and only then when she really begins to prove herself is the deeper, real conversation going to begin."
Sometimes you're interested, sometimes you hold back and play it cool, acting as if you're really not that interested. Sometimes it's all about the vibe between you and her, other times it's about letting her see you hitting it off with another girls. NOW.. There are exact tools and tactics for being the right kind of playful and challenging, the kind that instantly makes girls wetter than Seattle. 
Here's a quick list of those techniques:
(See if you can figure out how each of these are PLAYFUL and CHALLENGING to her..)
* Lightly teasing her..Ex: "Did you shrink? You look shorter tonight. Aww, whatever, you're still the cutest midget in here."
* Lightly teasing other things or people with her..
Ex: "Look at this guy with the platform shoes on. How do you think his internal dialogue goes when he's getting ready for the night? I bet it's like, "Fvck, I look so awesome in these gangster platform shoes right now. I'm gonna get laid so hard tonight.."
* Playfully Disqualifying 
This is where you either come up with fake or silly reasons why you can't be with her, or her with you.
Ex: "Wait, you're from the Valley? That's cool but really sad too because we could never date now - I would never drive over the to hell, I mean the Valley, to see you and we both know long distance never works." You can also use this indirectly, by trying to set her up with other guys.This is one of my all-time favorites, I use it with stuck-up girls almost exclusively.Ex: "I can't believe someone as interesting as you is single. Crazy. Here, we're gonna do something about this right now, come one,
let's find you a boyfriend."
And then I'll lead her around the bar or club, pointing out all the guys she should be dating (of course, I only point out the nerdy looking dudes because it's way funnier that way). 
* Challenging her to a game..
And then you play with her the whole way through. Remember, you don't need anything crazy intricate here.  Or at a bar, to see who can get a phone number from someone faster. In Make Women Want You, I share a list of my favorite and most effective games to play with girls. The reason all of those techniques above work so damn well is because they all combine being PLAYFUL with being CHALLENGING to her, and again..
                                F + C = Sexual Attraction
When you combine both of those together with her, she cannot help it. On a chemical level, she begins to FEEL ATTRACTION (and NOW, she feels it for you). This is why you've been so successful in attracting the girls you didn't want but could never get the ones 
you REALLY wanted...With the ones you didn't want, you kept it light and playful and OF COURSE you were a challenge to them because you didn't actually want them. They could feel that, and couldn't help but feel ATTRACTION for you in return. But with the girls you really did want..
You wanted it TOO MUCH.
So much so, that it stopped you from keeping it light or playful.
You started to take everything too seriously.
You read too much into everything.
You made yourself available at every whim.
You were too interested, too soon.
You weren't a challenge at all.
No wonder she didn't feel attraction for you anymore dude...I don't mean to be harsh here guy, but I need you to understand exactly where you fvcked up in the past so you NEVER do it again.
From now on, now that you understand how female attraction works (and how it doesn't), I want you to be able to get every girl that you want..Try any of these techniques above and do them with a nonchalant, carefree attitude today.

Are You Sabotaging Yourself by Destroying Sexual Tension?
How much sexual tension can you tolerate? It depends on your experiences and your nature. When you have a high threshold and can withstand a high degree of sexual tension it gives you a lot of power with women. If you can create sexual tension, you're cool with it, and she experiences it, she'll be more attracted to you. Problems often come when the guy has a low sexual tension threshold. If he's inexperienced, he'll experience sexual tension just by being around girls. And he will avoid the sexual tension. Just because his threshold is low. He will break the sexual tension. The ways he avoids the tension, and as a result destroys his ability to attract a woman include:
 1. Make a move: He will get too turned on, make a move and go for it. If he gets to the point of sexual tension too early, then the woman is not sufficiently attracted, it will be too early.
 2. Reject her or ignore her: Or act non-sexually, or act like he doesn't care about sex. This is more subtle than you may expect. Just by showing his disinterest he will miss the window. He will not make a move when it would be normal to do so. He avoids the uncertainty of potentially getting rejected by her, to shelter himself in the certainty of rejecting her.
 3. Distracting himself: Instead of focusing on her he will distract himself or her away from the intimacy that is building between them to something else. By distracting away from intimacy he reduces sexual tension.
 These are subtle ways in which many sabotage their own efforts with women. Think about how these may apply to you, and you may have done these things in the past.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

The Three Levels of Relationships

The fulfillment you get from a relationship will ultimately be determined by the style of relationship you lead and create with your partner.
 Level 1 - The Independent Relationship - Each partner is only concerned about getting his/ her own needs met. This relationship is all about taking. These types of relationships are short term, due to their nature they cannot last.
 Level 2 - The Bartering Relationship - Each partner barters for his or her needs. This can be defined as "I'll give you what you want, if you give me what I want". It is horse trading. These relationships can last. However, they cannot bring about lasting intimacy. Typically the emotional side of communication becomes too limited, because each partner feels that there are only certain situations where they are free to communicate their real needs. They are limited to do this only when they give and the other gives.
 Level 3 - The Unconditional Relationship - Each partner puts the other partners' needs first. This is an unconditional relationship, where caring for the other (or loving, or giving) is unconditional. This type of relationship can endure the inevitable bumps that each partner goes through, by fostering a stronger trust bond between the partners.
 If you are interested in developing longer lasting and fulfilling relationships, you should pursue a level 3 type relationship. It takes more courage and strength to pursue this type of relationship, but the long term rewards are much greater.

Saturday, September 21, 2013


1. What are some things you should never say to a woman during the day?
Don’t over-compliment a girl, putting her on a pedestal. Don’t kiss her ass by agreeing to everything she says. Don’t ask her permission with questions, instead make statements and lead. Don’t brag about yourself – put the spotlight on her.
2. How long do I need to talk to her before enough rapport is built?
A good daygame interaction is 5-10 minutes long. If you’ve gone direct then the Attraction Phase can happen really quickly, meaning she hooks and the Rapport Phase begins almost immediately – the beauty of daygame.
3. Are there any body language techniques that help with rapport?
Smiling on the approach and being playful, then when she hooks it’s best to dial down body language and keep a neutral vibe. Folding arms works to flip the script and get her to open up more. Mirroring often happens unintentionally when rapport is reached.
4. How can I come across as less needy?
To be less needy, don’t nod, smile and agree with everything she says. Replace “oh cool!”, “wow” and “amazing” with the simple word “ok.” Tease and challenge her. Don’t kiss her ass. Get her doing the work. Don’t grill her with questions but instead make statements and assumptions. Watch that your voice doesn’t go up (inflect).
5. What type of questions should I be asking to keep the conversation going?
You can only really ask her questions once she’s hooked and starts investing. At this point the questions should be big open questions that get her investing. These type of questions are qualification questions in that the spotlight is on her:
“So what’s the story with ____________?”
“What do you like about ____________?”
“What is it about ________ that you love?”
“How does _________ compare to ________?”
You can also use something called “Parroting” where you repeat back to the girl what she’s just said to get her to invest more.
6. What can I open with that gets her to stop and listen?
Daygame begins with a Capture Phase – stopping the girl directly with a low-investment compliment. That’s the best “opener” in the world as it’s real. “Hey, a bit random, but I just saw you and I think that you look really nice.”
7. How can I get her to invest more in the conversation, instead of me talking too much?
A girl will only invest in the conversation once she’s hooked. You have to do the conversational work until this point (we call it “crossing the assumption bridge”).
Once you notice a hook (she crosses her legs, plays with her hair, asks you a question) then ask some of the big open questions from above. If she asks you a question, answer it but then quickly relate it back to her. We follow the 90/10 rule of investment.
8. How much (if any) should I touch her during conversation and where?
Don’t “kino” her in the day, unless it’s what you’d do with your friends anyway. Because you’ve gone direct, you don’t need to “escalate” on the street. Save that for the dates.
9. How can I be more funny? Because I’m not, are there any tips?
It sounds counter-intuitive, but in daygame it’s NOT good to be that funny. Being “funny” usually means you over-investing and trying to impress her. Telling a joke actually breaks rapport and is often done from nerves. Better to be Bond than Borat.
In the Attraction Phase you can tease her with some good old Cocky Funny – push-pull statements that tease her like you’d tease a little sister or friend down the pub.
10. What are the biggest mistakes most men make during conversation with women in the day time?
  • Being needy / kissing her arse / over-investing
  • Talking to women too quickly
  • Inflecting your voice (through neediness again)
  • Trying to be funny / dancing monkey (over investing again)
  • Talking about yourself too much (over investing)
  • Being “gamey” – running nightclub routines or lines on the street
So that’s how you talk to women during the day.


Ready? Let’s do it.


You need more opportunities to meet women. So make it a priority to build a social circle around you that has the following types of women:
  • Friends – Girls that you can talk to regularly and are great friends with. These are girls that you NEVER bang. You only want them as friends. Why? Because they will introduce you to tons of other girls and put in a good word for you.
  • Sexual friends – These are girls that you want to bang occasionally when you’re both feeling a little frisky. They’re not f**k buddies, but just girls you know are DTF who you can spice things up with on a night out.
  • Connected friends – These girls are usually in PR, entertainment, fashion or some other industry that is high end. Having a girl in these industries will allow you to attend awesome parties, meet cool people and live an “attractive lifestyle”.


Having a girl you can sleep with regularly is essential for keeping up momentum and letting girls know that you’re sexually in demand. If you do it right, you can have a constant stream of women in your bed.
A guy who is actively having sex gives off a different vibe to women than a guy who hasn’t had sex in months… heck even years.


So you have girls that you’ve slept with once, girls you are banging regularly and girls who are your good friends. You have to make it a point to stay in touch with them as much as possible.
Tweet them, massage them on Facebook, comment on a photo, call them, text them… just make it a point to stay in their mind. This will ensure that you’ll always have a handful of opportunities at any given moment.


When you have a few f**k buddies on the go, laziness will start to creep in. This is because you’re getting laid so you don’t feel the need to go out and refine your game and talk to new women anymore.
BAD MOVE! Even though you’re having regular sex it won’t last forever… so you need to force yourself to game every now and again. Once a week should be fine.
Open groups, close girls in coffee shops, be the party guy in the clubs… do whatever you can to stay current and on the market. Women can smell this shit, I swear.


Momentum is an unseen but critical part of game. Without it you will become a desperate, lonely and needy little man who doesn’t get laid. With it, you will consistently have girls coming in and out of your life and getting laid all the time.


Mistakes happen. I still make them to this day. But I’m a master at nipping them in the bud and learning from them, which is why I got so good so fast. Today I want to look at common mistakes guys make during day game which cause them to not get the results they want… i.e get solid phone numbers and women into their bed.
Let’s do this…


Hesitation leads to approach anxiety and we all know that if you don’t approach, then you’ve got no chance of getting laid and developing your skill set with chicks.
The moment you see a girl, two things should run through your mind. 1) Am I attracted to her? 2) Ok I’m going in with a stock opener.


If you spot a girl you like and you’re hesitating, then you’re going to be lingering around her which looks creepy.
No one likes a creep, so it’s best to jump right in… say whatever stock opener you have in your head and build attraction from there.


Having a solid understanding of how to connect with women on an emotional and intellectual level is the key to building rapport.
Too many guys are not focusing enough attention on this area, all they are thinking about is getting in and out as quickly as possible.
Get inside her head and you will win her trust and create insane attraction.


Neediness is a natural characteristic when your confidence in your abilities is low. You have to work hard at building your confidence up so that you come across as an alpha male and not some little boy who is seeking approval.


What the hell is the fascination with getting the number so quickly? If you do this then your going to increase the amount of flakes by a ton. I’d give it at least 5 minutes of talking before going for the number.
Also make sure you call her number on the spot, so that you can make sure it’s not a flake.


It’s inevitable that people are going to hear you stopping and talking to girls, they will stare, they may even laugh about it with their friends… but you know what? Who the fuck cares.
The sooner you get over the whole public humiliation thing the better, because it’s not going away.
So those are the most common mistakes… learn from them, squash them and get REAL good with women.


I followed each law to the letter and the result was me being surrounded by the most beautiful women in the club and guys drooling over them.
In fact I even remember one guy coming up to me half way through the night and saying “Dude, who are you and why do you have so many hot chicks around you?”
So what are the laws?
I’m glad you asked… pay attention.


I’ve put this at the top because I strongly believe in looking good. When you look the part, you feel confident, women respond well and it just compliments your game overall.
Get yourself some nice shoes, slim fitting jeans, slim fitting shirts and cool watch and get a cologne that women love.
You don’t have to spend a fortune on brands, you can even get no names. As long as it fits, that’s all that matters. Having said that, I would ALWAYS pay a lot of money for shoes.


In order to spark any sort of interest and eventually attraction, you need to start by building comfort which leads to her trusting you. Trust is a HUGE part of a girl being attracted on a deeper level.
When I speak to a girl, I come across as a confident, likable and funny character. I give off the energy that if her friends left her, I would look after her and not try anything dodgy.


Rapport goes hand in hand with comfort and is used to get inside her mind, connect with like most guys wouldn’t. The reason it’s an essential law is because if you used comfort alone, then you would be stuck in the friend zone.
There’s a key ingredient I need to mention though. When you’re building rapport you want to break it sometimes, so that you can generate attraction. If you don’t break it you would still run the risk of her thinking you’re just a “nice guy” and not a sexual partner.
Saying something like “You actually liked the new Hangover movie? Oh dear I can see us having a problem if your sense of humour is that bad!
This will lead to her hitting your arm in a playful way, thus sparking some attraction.


Now you have her trust and she’s attracted, you want to make sure she invests you in you. Say what? Invest in me? Yep. Because when someone invests in something, they are emotionally attached and they want it more… can you feel the power! Mwaahahahahha!
The thing to remember her is that you need to be a high status male. If you’re in the presence of a low status male, what does he do? Well he’s needy, talks about himself, wants approval and just looks like a fool. She’ll forget about him in no time.
The next thing you want to do is make her jump through your hoops. So you would ask them powerful questions that provoke thought and feeling. To begin qualifying her you would say something like “So what do you do for fun”, which is basic.
After she answers you could say “What’s the craziest thing you ever done?” which is a little more saucy. This will naturally lead onto “Where’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?” and so on.
See what’s happening here? She’s following your lead, by answering your questions and qualifying herself to you. Obviously this law can go a lot deeper, but you get the idea.


Now for the best part :)
Understanding that women get turned on mentally before they get turned on physically is the underlying thought process you need to come to terms with before applying this law.
Once you understand this… it’s time to play the mind games that women love. The way you touch women, will spike sexual interest so you must keep kinoing throughout your conversion. Obviously you need to touch the more intimate parts of her body for her to feel sexual.
In order to know when she’s ready to have sex, you’ll want to perform the kiss test on her. Once you kiss, it’s in the bag and it’s all about you manning up and taking her back to yours.


Oh and by the way, this works the best when you’re in a club but also works like crazy during the day too.
I’ve invited girls (friends) out to the park when it was sizzling hot… they brought their friends and boom… game on.
We had some pictures together, me in the middle with beautiful women around me… pre-selection kicks in and bam, the whole attraction process kicks in again. All because I apply the 5 laws over and over.

Friday, September 20, 2013

Guys Good with Women Make Mistakes....
Real ladies' men make mistakes all the time - probably more so than "regular guys."
However, these guys simply don't care! In fact, they often draw attention to it, making it into a joke.
For example, if a guy stumbles over his opening line, he might laugh and say, "Wow girl, whatta ya doin' to me? I can hardly talk!"This communicates more confidence than the most perfectly executed pick up line.
While this isn't an invitation to intentionally make mistakes, it is an invitation not to care when you do. Improving your skills with women is not ridding yourself of flaws and mistakes. Mistakes will always happen.
It's more important to learn the appropriate way to respond to them, which is simply not to care.
Once you accept that, you transform something you do naturally (make mistakes) into a sexy quality that not only attracts girls, but also wins their trust. 
That'll help you quickly and effortlessly make emotional connections with amazing women.

Wednesday, September 18, 2013


How to make a woman (any woman) orgasm fast – whenever you want them too.


Now it’s a known fact that women find it much harder to “get off” and orgasm without any foreplay, so you should always try and introduce foreplay before sex, let those tricky fingers hang loose bro.
But even before foreplay, you have to get her totally relaxed so she’s comfortable in your company. If she’s not relaxed, it’s game over… she’ll be fakin like a pro.
Take your time dude, just make her feel at ease so she’s practically begging you to have sex with her… this is when you take it to the next stage and bring out the “BIG GUNS”.


Right then, once you’ve made her feel relaxed, clothes are off and you’re humping her like a jack rabbit, remember to use these 3 cheeky G-Spot moves:


Assume the normal “Doggystyle” position, then guide her head down so it’s on the bed, make sure her ass is still in the air.
Now place a pillow underneath her stomach and tell her to rest on it. So she’s relaxed and just ready to be pounded.
Lastly, just go for it. Thrust downwards, hard and with a steady pace so that it’s consistent. Try and maintain the thrusting for 5 minutes, if you can do that she’ll have a squirting orgasm in no time.


Assume the normal missionary position, then take both her legs and place them over both of your shoulders. Place a pillow under her lower back and slightly lift her legs so her ass is just off the bed.
Now all you need to do is thrust hard and with a consistent pace. Mix things up by moving towards her face and whispering naughty things to her, also taking just the one leg and pumping her just like that.


Yeeeehaa cowboy. Grab a chair and ask her to sit on top, make sure she leans back and holds onto the edge of the chair, arching her back as she does this.
Now it’s up to her to do the work, but it’s important to tell her to ride you hard. Talk her through it by saying naughty things so she gets turned on and keeps going.
Make it a point to throw all of these positions in at some point and spend 5 to 10 minutes on each.


So let’s imagine you’ve just finished having sex and you’re both exhausted, give her a kiss and a cuddle then say that you really need to be somewhere… this will leave her wanting more.