Mistakes happen. I still make them to this day. But I’m a master at nipping them in the bud and learning from them, which is why I got so good so fast. Today I want to look at common mistakes guys make during day game which cause them to not get the results they want… i.e get solid phone numbers and women into their bed.
Let’s do this…
1. HESITATE BEFORE APPROACHING
Hesitation leads to approach anxiety and we all know that if you don’t approach, then you’ve got no chance of getting laid and developing your skill set with chicks.
The moment you see a girl, two things should run through your mind. 1) Am I attracted to her? 2) Ok I’m going in with a stock opener.
2. LINGER LIKE A HERMIT
If you spot a girl you like and you’re hesitating, then you’re going to be lingering around her which looks creepy.
No one likes a creep, so it’s best to jump right in… say whatever stock opener you have in your head and build attraction from there.
3. DON’T BUILD ENOUGH RAPPORT
Having a solid understanding of how to connect with women on an emotional and intellectual level is the key to building rapport.
Too many guys are not focusing enough attention on this area, all they are thinking about is getting in and out as quickly as possible.
Get inside her head and you will win her trust and create insane attraction.
4. APPROACH WITH A NEEDY VIBE
Neediness is a natural characteristic when your confidence in your abilities is low. You have to work hard at building your confidence up so that you come across as an alpha male and not some little boy who is seeking approval.
5. GO FOR THE NUMBER TOO SOON
What the hell is the fascination with getting the number so quickly? If you do this then your going to increase the amount of flakes by a ton. I’d give it at least 5 minutes of talking before going for the number.
Also make sure you call her number on the spot, so that you can make sure it’s not a flake.
6. WORRY ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE JUDGING YOU
It’s inevitable that people are going to hear you stopping and talking to girls, they will stare, they may even laugh about it with their friends… but you know what? Who the fuck cares.
The sooner you get over the whole public humiliation thing the better, because it’s not going away.
So those are the most common mistakes… learn from them, squash them and get REAL good with women.