Life is too short to be a wussy

Be a MAn of Desire,,,,Life is Too Short to be a Wussy

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Affirmations for Self-Confidence and Self-Belief

- Fear is only a feeling; it cannot hold me back.
- I know that I can master anything if I do it enough times.
- Today I am willing to fail in order to succeed.
- I believe that I have the strength to make my dreams come true.
- I’m going to relax and have fun with this, no matter what the outcome may be.
- I’m proud of myself for even daring to try; many people won’t even do that!
- Today I put my full trust in my inner guidance.
- I grow in strength with every forward step I take.
- I release my hesitation and make room for victory!
- With a solid plan and a belief in myself, there’s nothing I can’t do.

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

When it comes to attraction, there may indeed be a little weird science involved
Seriously, how many times have you looked at a couple and said to yourself, Hmmm…how did a guy like that get a girl like her? Well, we’re not going to say we’ve found the magic elixir, but we did dig up some surprising secret ways men can effortlessly make themselves more attractive to the ladies. 

We’re guessing that even if they don’t actually work for you personally, the extra confidence you’ll exude knowing you’ve got these stealth attraction tactics (i.e., “attractics”) in your arsenal may just help you land a date with that gal you’ve had your eye on.

Attractic #1: Wear red
Red is a power color, and that doesn’t just apply to politics and carpets at Hollywood events. According to a recent study published in the Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, simply wearing the color red or being surrounded by the rosy hue makes a man more attractive and desirable to women. The fact that women are largely unaware of this color’s arousing quality makes wearing it that much more effective for men who are in the know (unless they’re women who happen to have read this article… in which case, they may be on to you, but they’ll still probably respond to the color anyway).
Adding a touch of red into your wardrobe apparently makes women perceive you as having a higher social status, more likely to make money and think of you as powerful (whether it’s true or not). On a purely animalistic level, for non-human primates — like mandrills and gelada baboons — the color red is an indicator of male dominance and is expressed most intensely in alpha males. Females of these species mate more often with alpha males who, in return, provide them with protection and resources. “When women see red, it triggers something deep and probably biologically ingrained,” says Andrew Elliot, the lead author of this study and professor of psychology at the University of Rochester. In other words, dressing to impress may now mean adding a pop of cherry into your typical black, gray and navy wardrobe staples.

Attractic #2: Eat celery
Real men don’t eat rabbit food, right? WRONG. If you want to reel in the ladies, try increasing your crunches — of celery stalks, that is, not the gym variety. And it’s not just because women tend to congregate around vegetable trays at parties; in fact, eating celery increases the amount of female-attracting pheromones that men emit. Why? It seems that the cytoplasm found in celery contains the same chemicals as those found in human male sweat (specifically, regular sweat that’s responsible for a subtly masculine scent, which may not always be perceptible through clothing); both contain the steroid Androstenone, which makes men more attractive to women.

Why would you want more pheromones oozing out of your pores, you ask? Well, these are the hormones responsible for letting animals know when it’s time to mate, and they’re also how insects attract their mates from up to six miles away. So if you find yourself within flirting distance of an attractive woman and you’re dripping in delicious pheromones thanks to the celery you snacked on for lunch, women may find themselves irresistibly drawn to you. “The effects of celery are almost immediate,” says Judy Gaman, coauthor of the book, Stay Young: 10 Proven Steps to Ultimate Health. “We recommend that a man work out, have a nice, warm shower, chomp on a few sticks of celery, brush his teeth — and then head out the door smelling good!” Admit it: you’re rethinking the “eat your vegetables” edict now, aren’t you? Just call it “eau de crudité.”

Attractic #3: Play romantic music
Looking to score a gal’s digits or get her to think that you’re Prince Charming? Take a cue from the French and play a little love song first. According to a recent study by researchers Nicolas Guéguen and Céline Jacob from the Université de Bretagne-Sud (along with Lubomir Lamy from Université de Paris-Sud), women who were exposed to romantic music before interacting with eligible males were more likely to hand over their contact information (ostensibly, to set up a date) than those ladies who were exposed to “neutral” music in the same scenario. And while sappy ballads might make more macho guys want to gag, if your goal is to get the lady in question’s email address, it might behoove you to stomach a little Il Divo or Josh Groban in the presence of female subjects (the researchers showed positive correlations between romantic feelings and background music). Or try attending a crooner’s concert performance solo; who knows — you might just find yourself fighting off a whole group of swooning women!

Attractic #4: Order a chocolate dessert
Meeting a lady for coffee? Order some food, too. And if you can, make it something with chocolate in it. Here’s why: when people talk about falling in love, what’s really going on is that you’re participating in activities that promote forming an attachment to each other. Things that facilitate the attachment process raise your oxytocin levels (the love and bonding hormones) in the brain. According to Dr. Alan Hirsch, Neurological Director of the Smell & Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, eating and the smell of food increases oxytocin levels in humans. So, by ordering an appetizer or dessert as an accompaniment, your date’s oxytocin levels will spike, thus encouraging a mutual bond to develop. (Who would’ve guessed that love was just an order of nachos away this whole time?) “You may want to be alone with her while eating, however, so she doesn’t bond with someone else at the table,” warns Dr. Hirsch.

To enhance the bonding effect even more, order something that contains chocolate. Eating chocolate increases the serotonin levels in the human body, which can induce feelings of euphoria and chemically improve your mood. “By being around a woman while she’s eating chocolate, you get this sort of ‘halo effect’…she likes the chocolate you ordered her, therefore she likes you,” says Dr. Hirsch.

Attractic #5: Learn some dance moves

So you think you can dance? Go ahead and bust a move, then! Actually, make that a good move (if you are a horrible dancer and you know it, please try options #1-4 above first). Why? The movements associated with men perceived as being skilled at dancing appear to send a subliminal signal to women that you’re in good health and have reproductive potential.

A recent study published in the Royal Society journal, Biology Letters, analyzed the dance moves of 12 non-professional male dancers. Researchers videotaped these men grooving to a basic drum rhythm and then turned their “dances” into computer-generated cartoons (that way, each guy could be judged solely on his moves, not his looks). Women then rated these dancing avatars on a scale of 1 to 7.

The results were clear: if it’s female attention you’re after, don’t flail your arms on the dance floor. Women participating in the study paid more attention to those dancers who were connected with their core body region. In other words, the guys who earned higher ratings had more control over their upper bodies and were twisting, bending, moving and nodding instead of simply pumping their fists in the air. Women scored men whose movements were twitchy and repetitive the lowest — so try to stay on beat and avoid shuffling back and forth aimlessly. And if you know you’re smooth, well...don’t be afraid to show it! You just might have women falling at your feet (but not stepping on your toes).

Monday, February 27, 2012

Destroying Fear Symbolically...this is a must Alpha Casanova man

If you don‟t have a supportive person to confide in, there is another way to purge your fears and
destroy them for good through strong symbolic action.
Take a clean sheet of paper and write out everything that is bothering you.  Focus not only on the
physical situations that worry you, but also the way they make you feel.  Use strong language to
express these feelings and don‟t hold back!
Example:  “These financial problems make me feel so helpless.  I feel like a victim because I
can‟t figure out a way to resolve these money problems, and that makes me so angry!  I don‟t
deserve this!  I‟m not going to accept this situation any longer!”   Really tune into your fear,
anger, despair, sadness, or any other emotion you are feeling at the time, and imagine pouring all
of it out onto that sheet of paper.
When you feel like you have fully purged the negativity from your system, take that sheet of
paper and destroy it as forcefully as you can.  Rip it into tiny pieces, shred it, burn it, flush it
down the toilet, or dump it into the trash can.
As you perform these actions, affirm that the fear is now gone – you have let it go and it cannot
come back to haunt you again.  (Don‟t worry if it actually does come back; simply repeat the
process as many times as necessary.)

Saturday, February 25, 2012

PERSONAL FEARS and Why Fear Limits Your Life Potential...

Have you ever felt like fear was preventing you from reaching your full potential in life? If so,
you are certainly not alone because fear is one of the biggest obstacles that many people face
when trying to create better life circumstances.
Below are some of the most common ways that fear can hold you back:
Fear can prevent you from making positive changes.
Sometimes fear can make even the smallest changes seem extremely uncomfortable. For
example, you may be deeply dissatisfied with your job, but feel nervous or uncertain about
finding and applying for a better one. Or you may have always dreamed of buying your own
home but worry that the responsibility would be too much to handle.
Fear can prevent you from breaking destructive habits.
We all know that smoking, poor dietary choices, excessive alcohol and a sedentary lifestyle are a
recipe for health problems, but we often gravitate toward these habits because they help numb
our anxious or fearful feelings. If you have ever tried to break a bad habit like this, you know
how stressful it can be because suddenly you are filled with anxiety and you don‟t know how to
handle it except to run back to your “pacifiers”
– the very habits you are trying to break.
Fear can prevent you from taking risks.
Many of us shy away from risk because we
fear negative consequences. For example, you
may hesitate to invest your money because you
fear losing it, or avoid starting a new
relationship because you were so hurt by the
last one. What most of us fail to realize is that
risk can also bring great rewards. Avoiding
risk may help us avoid negative possibilities
but we also miss the excitement and joy that
come from positive outcomes.
Fear can prevent you from pursuing your goals.
Have you ever dreamed of doing something great but were never able to push yourself to do it?
Perhaps you dreamed of being a stand-up comedian but dreaded the thought of public speaking,
or you desperately wanted to be a bestselling author but were too afraid to pen that novel lurking
inside of you.
Fear can prevent you from expanding your life.
Social anxiety is another common way that fear can limit your potential. It may prevent you from
attending networking functions so your career or business can‟t grow properly, or you may avoid
taking that much needed vacation to relax and explore other cultures because you fear flying or
being on a cruise ship.

How to Stop Fear from Limiting Your Potential
It‟s important to note that all of these fears are most often groundless. They are merely a
perception that things “could” go wrong – but that doesn‟t mean they will.
Rather than trying to force your way through the fear, you may find it easier to explore the many
ways that fear can be effectively released from your mind, emotions, and body. When you know
how to release the fear, you simply handle it as you would any minor obstacle and then continue
on your way to creating the best life you possibly can.

Thursday, February 23, 2012


There are THREE MAJOR STICKING POINTS that stop you to
make a move with a woman:
1. Getting rejected when you go for the first kiss. 
2. Not building attraction. You're stuck just chatting with 
women. They find you interesting but aren't attracted to you. 
3. Getting denied when you ask her "Do you want to go to my 
place." Or not having the courage to even say this. 
You can solve these issues by doing these steps:
 1. KINO: smoothly making her comfortable with your touch so 
she craves your kiss so much she stares at you with a sexy "I 
want you!" look in her eyes until you kiss her!
2. DISQUALIFY: using fun, flirting routines to heighten 
attraction that makes women say, "There's just something 
sexy about him. He's different from other guys." 
3. LEAD THE INTERACTION: the key to isolating women in dark
corners of bars for quick make-out sessions, bouncing them to 
another club so you look like the man, and getting them back 
to your place for the FULL CLOSE!   
If you've haven't experienced the rush of emotion of meeting 
a beautiful woman, getting her so attracted to you she forces 
you to make out with her in the club and bouncing her back to 
your place, all in the same need to learn and  "THE 

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

HOW TO CONQUER 2012....just like an alpha casanova

1. Work 6 days a week for 12 hours a day if you are not rich yet. If you can’t do this, you suck and will always be broke. So make up your mind right now. Do you want to be broke or rich? Don’t kid yourself. Decide RIGHT NOW.
2. Read one book a month at least. I read one or two a week.
3. Start out your day with 30 minutes of high-cardio exercise while listening to Les Brown (anything of his). This alone could double your income. You should be out of breath and begging for death at the end of this 30 minutes btw. Anything less is a waste of time.
4. Write out ONE WORD that describes the overall theme you believe God wants to script out in your life this year. Repeat it 3 times a day. Mine is “healing.”
5. Do verbal affirmations for at least 15 minutes per day. Speak nicely to yourself in the mirror right before you leave. Tell yourself “I like you. You are amazing. You look great today. I feel comfortable in my own skin. I am going to crush 2011 like a can of cheap beer on a frat boys forehead.
6. Seek out and surround yourself with positive successful people. Cut out all losers. Even if its your own mother. Read “Boundaries” for more on this.
7. Develop one new positive habit (or break one bad one) once every 30 days. For example, I am not saying one single curse word this month. Yes, I know I said “ass” in this post. I was referring to the animal obviously.
8. Cut carbs and sugar out of your diet, at least 80% of the time. Eat an organic salad with every vegetable known to man in it for lunch every weekday and you’ll probably never get sick again. Focus on raw food.
9. Ask yourself every single day “what is it that I am supposed to be doing with my life?”
10. Ask God to show you who He truly is. You may think you know. You probably don’t. The most brilliant question you could ever ask yourself is “what do I think about Jesus Christ?” I dare you to try it.
That’s all for now. And more than anything … expect to succeed.

Monday, February 20, 2012

TAKE IT LIKE A MAN....BE a man ..Be an AlpHa Casanova Men

It’s worth it. Everything else is an illusion.                                                              
Are you willing to pay the price? Do you even agree with what I’m saying?
In a minute I'll show you a simple trick to unleash the Alpha 
Male gene inside you that makes women attracted to you - like 
bees to honey.

That means, if there's a woman you like right now...

* You'll disable her shield and sweep her off her feet 

* She'll see you as "lover material" (instead of "just a 

* You'll flip an attraction switch triggering her to pursue 

If you're afraid of being rejected by a beautiful woman, if 
you don't know what to say to her, if you're worried women 
won't find you attractive or think women laugh behind your 
back, with this little trick you'll put those problems behind 
you and find out what to say to get her fantasizing about you 
even if she ignored you before. 

The fact is, pick up artists, KNOW there's NO magic MOJO to 
get a phone number, or get a date.

Here's the formula: You approach a woman, you attract her by 
offering something she values, you connect in a way that 
resonates deeply with her and moves her to want more of you.

It's really that simple. 

So, WHY does it seem such a stressful and impossible task? 

        Why Weak-Willed Men Will Never Get The Girl
The problem is beautiful women have embedded behavioral
shields they use to select men. Most men don't know how to 
break through and inspire her mind the right way. Instead 
they let women walk all over them.
Women find it BORING and UNATTRACTIVE (even if a man is
rich, handsome and famous).

THE TRUTH: nothing excites women more than an interesting
man who opens up her mind, leads her imagination and is different
from the weak-willed men she meets daily.

             How do you break through her shield?

I'll show you a subconscious "loophole" in female psychology 
you can use to pass her ATTRACTION TESTS.

Ready? Let's get started...

Recall the last time you spoke to a girl you liked. Maybe you 
met her at work, school or a bar? Or maybe you've known her 
for a long time? Stop and think for a second. Picture one 
specific girl in your mind.

Do you remember the first time you saw her and spoke to her? 
The way she looked at you? How her hair fell, how she smiled 
and even how she smelled? Where was it? What was she wearing?

Remember, while talking to her, you wanted HER to find YOU 
attractive but didn't know what to say or do to make her feel 
you should be more than friends. But the fact is you had only 
those first few minutes to make her think:

"This is an interesting guy! I want to know more about him."

The female mind works differently than the male mind: LOOKS 
DON'T MATTER TO HER. What mattera is your attitude, how 
interesting you are and how you make her feel! 

Women don't want a BORING, LOW VALUE, BETA MALE man. 

Her mind is following the biological rules encoded in the 
female brain over thousands of years of evolution. Her 
subconscious evolutionary desire PUSHES her to find a HIGH 
VALUE ALPHA man worthy of her beauty. She may not even be 
aware of it, but her mind NEEDS to answer the following 
questions to find you attractive:

"Is he interesting? Can he entertain me and make me feel 
good? Is he strong or smart enough to protect me? Will 
people listen to him? Do other women find him attractive?"

She wants a man who she believes can protect her, provide for 
a family, and has a mindset tough enough to make his way in 
this world. Those are the characteristics of an alpha-male. 

A typical attractive woman is hit on by dozens of men in a 
day - hundreds in a month. And for each one she meets she 
needs to answer the question: "Is this guy an alpha male?"

Her brain tests every man she meets searching for alpha male 
qualities. The "Attraction Tests" she uses are typically:

-She'll ignore the men she meets. 
-She'll tease them. 
-She'll insult them. 
-She'll try to get them to buy her drinks. 
-She'll try to make them do her favors. 
-She'll attempt to bend them all to her will. 

Once a man bends and give in, the man fails because each of 
these ATTRACTION TESTS tell her the answer to her question: 

"This man isn't interesting...he's not lover material."

                   How to Pass her Attraction Tests

She really wants is a man who stands up to her demands. A man 
who gives it back as good as she can dishes it out. The trick 
is to NOT let her disqualify you and respond confidently with 
humor, mystery or a challenge. Here's how: 

* If she says "Buy me a drink."

  You smile and say "I don't buy women drinks. But if you 
  invite me, I'll tell you a secret." 

* If she says, "You're too short for me." 

  You say "No, you're too blonde, that's a deal breaker, or
  you'd be my type. So, let's just be friends."

* If she says, "You're too old for me." 

  You say "I'm young enough to do it often. And old enough to 
  do it right."
Most don't pass her early ATTRACTION TESTS because they didn't
know they're tests. They falsely believe doing or saying what she
wants will be attractive. They couldn't be more WRONG.

Now, here's where the BEING INTERESTING part comes in... 

 When You Pass a Woman's Attraction Tests, She Gets Excited 

With each test you pass she thinks: "This is intriguing, I 
wonder how far he'll get." 

Her attraction grows. She keeps testing how interesting you 
are and how you make her feel until you pass her bar for the 
man she wants. Now you're her potential romantic partner.

If you don't give in and you've got the guts to be a man, 
you can pass any woman's tests and make her want you.

Your job is to be more INTERESTING to show HIGHER VALUE than 
the other men who approach her. How do you do that?

The easiest, quickest path to showing her you're a HIGH VALUE 
man is to Use DEMONSTRATIONS OF HIGH VALUE routines. 

These are pre-planned conversational pieces designed to make 
you more INTERESTING than other man in the room. After you 
DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE she'll stop treating you like a 
friend or a stranger and start FLIRTING with you.


You Were Born To Be Great. So WTF Are You Doing?

You know … you never really know when inspiration                        
is going to strike.  It just struck me on the toilet at
Starbucks.  No lie.  As I was sitting there meditating
on life (which I pretty much do non-stop), I realized
something very important ….
You were born to be great.
Think about that for a second.  Don’t just be like,
"duh."  I’ll repeat it for you.
You were born to be great.
Everyone was.  You were.  I was.  Your mom was.
Me and your mom were.  Everyone.
The key to you being as great as the king of Saudi
Arabia is this …
Find out who you are.
"A man’s gift makes room for him, and brings him
before great men.
 - Proverbs 18:16
You were brought into this world with special inborn
gifts/talents that God would like for you to discover
and use. 
And he would like for you to do this for several
reasons …
1.  the world needs them
2.  operating within your gifts will bring you joy
3.  it will provide you the passion necessary to bring
you success and thereby provide for your family and
other people
4.  so Lady Ga Ga will stop it
You were born to be great.
If everyone on earth would just do this one thing, we
would be like a bajillion steps closer to utopia if utopia
was even possible (which it’s not unfortunately). 
You discover your gifts by proactively trying different
things and paying attention to the feedback that life
gives you.
When trying something new, pay attention to two
main things:
1.  how it makes you feel
2.  how it makes other people feel ( e.g. "puking in
their mouth" generally is never a good sign)
"He who heeds the rebukes of life will dwell among
the wise."
 - Proverbs something-or-other
Once you find something that you are passionate
about, that you enjoy doing just for the sake of doing
it, you will have at that point arrived at the Gates of
Greatness.  Welcome.  It is pleasant here.  For one
thing, it generally rains hundred dollar bills.  You
don’t even need a wallet because whenever you have
to pay for something you just have to hold your hands
out and catch the cash. 
One word of caution …
We’re talking Ultimate Destiny here.  There is usually
a season where you will have to do something for
a period of time that does exercise your gifts, but you
would not necessarily do it unless you were getting paid
for it.  This is merely the first step to greatness.
“It is strange to be known so universally and yet to be so lonely.”
- Albert Einstein
Subconsciously, you know that if you truly become successful, you’re going to lose all your friends – and have a hard time making new ones.
You’re going to rise above your current “tribe,” and be tribe-less.
For some people this is actually good news as opposed to a hindrance because your friends and family are totally lame-o. But the bigger sacrifice comes from losing connection with the world (or “system”) at large.
Being “unplugged” is about as pleasant as an injection of purple Kool Aid in your forehead. I have no idea what that would be like, but I mean … it can’t be good.
In the olden days, (like, really olden) if you lost your tribe, you probably died. Evolutionary psychology* would hypothesize that that fear of isolation is hard-wired into our genes; which is why rejection feels like death to us. Literally. It’s a survival mechanism.
So the problem with growing and succeeding is that you suffer loneliness (death) in direct proportion to that growth and success.
Increased Growth = Less Intimacy
“If growth is your main human need, you can plan on your need for love to be met less. Your intimacy will suffer.”
- Anthony Robbins
The reason for this obviously is that the more you learn, grow, and achieve, the less you can relate to people who don’t (which is almost everyone).
You then rise to a position of being able to help the masses, but you do not find comfort in associating with them socially. Your former friends have become your current ministry.
Eagles don’t hang with seagulls. Usually. Except to witness to them or tell them to stop pooping so much publicly.
Let me paint the picture for you …
Multi-millionaires don’t usually attend football games. So scratch the tailgating crowd from the list of “Potential BFFs.” We just don’t wanna paint our faces. At least not more than one color. Sorry.
Sober people don’t normally go to clubs and bars. America’s self-proclaimed “social drinkers” are almost all raging alcoholics in truth. Ask me how I know. Actually no, don’t ask. A.A. told me not to tell people.
The wise don’t indulge in gossip, idle chit chat, complaining, etc. We don’t give a crap what the “Stars” are doing. We ARE the stars (in our own minds at least).
We – the New Rich – don’t watch the news and therefore don’t have much to talk about in regard to current events. Politics annoy us.
And we don’t talk about the weather either. It could be freaking monsooning outside and we’re still headed to Starbucks with no umbrella to type on our MacBooks and print money. We don’t take days off for hurricanes, blizzards, birthdays or ANY day the government says to.
Leaders don’t live for the weekends. We usually work on Saturdays while everyone else is at the beach pretending everything’s ok.
We don’t sleep in on Sunday mornings. We’re in church with the other 7 people there.
We don’t live to have fun and can’t relate to people who do. We live to love, grow, and accomplish our mission/purpose. If something fun happens in the middle of that, we appreciate it, and then get back to work.
We don’t watch TV and have nothing to say in response to “Did you vote for So-And-So last night on American Idol?” Think about those two words btw. American … Idol. Hhmm …
We live to give while others live to take.
We live to sell while others live to buy.
We die daily while others live the American Dream.
And this is all fine with us … but it’s lonely.
And the “masses”, while giving lip service to desiring success, have a sneaking suspicion that this loneliness and suffering awaits them if they get it. So they train their ego to “try” while their real self sabotages them every step of the way. And they stay exactly where they are … comfortable and safe and deluded.
There is no such thing as trying. You either do or you don’t. Period.
“Get rich or die trying.”
- 50 Cent

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Nice Guys Finish Last. And They Do not Get Chicks Either

Nice Guys Finish Last
And They Don’t Get Chicks Either
“The ordinary man is passive.  Against major events he is as helpless as against the elements.  So far from endeavoring to influence the future, he simply lies down and lets things happen to him.”
-    George Orwell (1903-1950) Famous journalist, political writer, and novelist
“The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.”
- George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950) Pulitzer Prize Winner 1925
“Why are there so many Georges?”
“Stop being a wussy.”
This is my message to men all around the world.  Women are sick of wussies.  How do I know he said this?  Because I am a genius.  and I’m not embarrassed to say it at all.  The whole “why are you dieting when you’re so skinny already?” thing applies here. 
Money doesn’t seem to like wussies much either.  It tends to not come around them too often.  Most wussies I know are so broke they can’t even pay attention.
You’re not a wussy…are you?
My vitamin for your mind this week actually applies to you too ladies.  If you’re in business that is.  And it has nothing at all to do with the Venutian Arts although I actually have a lot I could say on that subject.  We’ll save that for another life.

Saturday, February 18, 2012


Let's face it... characters like those just mentioned usually make the rest of us feel like "cool" is something we don't have enough of... can't get more of... and are doomed to fail with women because of our lack of.
Much worse:
Our attempts to fake "being cool" ruin any chance we actually have to build a long-lasting relationships with a great woman.
But here's the question:
Jason Bourne and James Bond aside, what exactly does it mean to "be cool" in the REAL world?
Well, despite what TV and movies have us believe, the only "cool" that really matters to women isn't about swagger, looks or money.
Genuine COOL is all about one thing only:
A man's INNER STRENGTH. Also know as the kind of strength that translates into personal confidence, control, and leadership.
It basically means being unaffected by the opinions of others.
It means seeing situations for what they really are without bitterness or paranoia.
It means being able to evaluate challenging situations in life, and then being quick to take mature, decisive action.
It means having the strength to do your own thing while encouraging others to do theirs as well.
But okay... how do you go about getting this kind of cool for YOURSELF?
First off, it's critical that you start PUSHING YOURSELF and TRYING NEW THINGS.
Because, fact is, the only way to TRULY be cool in ANY situation is to have faced a SIMILAR SITUATION at some time in the past.
The more experiences you can gather in your life, the greater the chances that you'll come across as cool in a FUTURE situation.
And -- most importantly -- you'll automatically "be cool" in situations that present themselves while you're with that great woman you want as a girlfriend!
So get out there and start experiencing new stuff IMMEDIATELY...
Maybe you want to learn more about different types of wine. Or maybe foreign movies.
Maybe you can start playing ice hockey instead of just shooting hoops all the time.
Do you understand ANYTHING about fashion? Have you ever even HEARD of Frank Sinatra?
I think you get the message.

Friday, February 17, 2012


Every time they enter a room they take control_instantly. Your absolute, steely confidence in exactly who and what you are allows you to walk into any situation, a wedding, party or bar whatever, like the KING of the jungle, just confident and in charge. So as soon as you see your target you go for it, remember Maybe she will like you, Maybe she will think you are cute or even hot, But she is got to get to know you OKEY ..ALPHA. You see her you approach her. You make eye contact, and then, you give her the big confident smile.
Keep in mind, Alpha Casanova that all that bad boy has going for him is CONFIDENCE. Dudes willing to buck the rules, star fights, raise hell, are generally pretty confident dudes…so dudes, remember chicks love confidence, and real men are confident in, of course. But they also have something to be confident in. They are the best of their breed. They have the courage of their convictions. They are polite. They are honorable. They take responsibility of their actions. As long as you are comfortable with yourself, women will sense that comfort, women will smell your confidence, and that will attract them like’s flies to honey.
COMPLIMENTS:  compliments from your lips are not things any women deserve. They are rewards; GET IT REWARDS. Think of it in the terms you would if you were training a dog. Compliment every once in a while. This is the way you have to treat women. One day give her a few, then the next day only one; be sure to skip a day before giving her another.
REMEMBER- constant compliments take all the fun out of the game. If you want to dominate a woman, you must posses her. You must own her. Until you have had her in bed, she still thinks she is in charge, free of control. Once you have met in the ring of sex, however then true control is decided once and for all. Remember, sex is the only thing women have that men want.
DECISIONS: decisions are your private domain. What you want to ask a woman are things that allow her to form an opinion. Here is Why..If you ask a woman for advice, it is the same as saying you value her opinion. The mere fact that you are even asking her opinion on anything at all will thrill most women to death. No matter how sophisticated or liberated they are, nearly all women crave male approval like a drug. This helps draw them closer, making them think you have started respecting their opinion. This is a thrill to all women.
ASK FOR FAVORS: Believe or not you are the one who has to start getting favors from her right from the beginning. Now, I’m talking about working on the simple things in life such as: watch my cigarettes, my beer will you? Hey, hand me a napkin? Little things. They are two reasons for this.
1)      You want to get her in the habit of doing things for you. You want her agreeable to your suggestions, requests, needs, etc
You want to get a pattern established of her doing things for you.
2)      You want to avoid doing things for her
So, do yourself a favor, and make sure that all the favors that get done in any relationship are only the ones that she is doing for you.

How To Dominate Women

                      How to dominate women
“I am the man. The man is in charge.”
‘I am the MAN,  goddamnit! And THE MAN IS ALWAYS IN CHARGE!”
Seduction is a nasty business. It is you getting what you want at any cost.
DECISIONS:  start talking, the subject does not matter. No matter what you use to catch her attention, there is something of vital importance you must do to make certain you keep her attention. And that thing is, you must not let her make any decisions, In fact, let me repeat it again YOU MUST NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, LET HER MAKE ANY DECISIONS. Women want to be told what to do. They want someone to take them in hand and make their decisions for them_ all of them> the more they protest that they do not the more desperately they need someone to do exactly that. Do not believe anything different. Never give a woman the opportunity to say NO ever. Pleasing women is not how you get them into bed. Telling them what to do is the way you get them into bed.  If they suggest something you don’t want to do, you have the right to say NO. You are the man and men make decisions.
Women are looking for a man with confidence. For one thing, only a man with confidence is going to tell them what to do which is, what they are all looking for in the first place, YOU simple have to be yourself, and be comfortable with yourself. Women do not want a boy, they want a man. So remember “WOMEN FAKE ORGASMS; MEN FAKE RELATIONSHIPS.”
Confidence is the key: Believe in yourself; the more positively you get across the fact that you could care less what she thinks, the stronger your hold over her will be.
YES,  you can be a good listener when the moment calls for it. Sometimes such skills really are called for. But, we are talking being understanding when she gets fired, or her mother dies, not playing the role of Mr. Kotex every time her brain starts to leak dribble. Keep in mind, after five days of soaking up leakage, tampons end up in the wastebasket. Sure, listen to them once in a while, but let’s remember, the only thing you really want to listen to is the sweet rhythm of her head bouncing off the back wall.


                                          4 STEP PROCESS OF SEX COMMUNICATION

1)      Sparking attraction or chemistry.
2)      Building sexual tension.
3)      Amplifying the attraction.
4)      Physically advancing.
SUM IT UP:  Women are attracted to the qualities of the leader.
THE LEADER:  leaders do not look to others approval, and instead does what he decides is the right thing, moving forward without signs of fear, self doubt, or cowardice. He lives in his own world, his own reality, and does not let outside events emotionally destabilize him. He holds and carries himself in a naturally confident way, and he projects authority in everything he does and says. Women are attracted to DOMINANCE.
ATTRACTIVE FEMALE PREFER STRONG MAN,,,strong in character and personality, so if you know how to deal with a women’s test and not let them affect you emotionally you will maintain and increase the attraction level if you start failing the test you will turn into a wussy.

Thursday, February 16, 2012


I make  no excuses for my desires as a man.
I move through this world without apology.
I like to live my life to the fullest.
I like to satisfy women.
I do not need any particular woman.
I am not needy.
Women are abundant.
I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive.
Rejection is a good thing.
I know what I want in my life.
The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid.
 I love to learn.
I learn something every time.
I do not dwell in the past.
The past can not be relived, good or bad.
The choice is always mine.