Let's face it... characters like those just mentioned usually make the rest of us feel like "cool" is something we don't have enough of... can't get more of... and are doomed to fail with women because of our lack of.
Our attempts to fake "being cool" ruin any chance we actually have to build a long-lasting relationships with a great woman.
But here's the question:
Jason Bourne and James Bond aside, what exactly does it mean to "be cool" in the REAL world?
Well, despite what TV and movies have us believe, the only "cool" that really matters to women isn't about swagger, looks or money.
Genuine COOL is all about one thing only:
A man's INNER STRENGTH. Also know as the kind of strength that translates into personal confidence, control, and leadership.
It basically means being unaffected by the opinions of others.
It means seeing situations for what they really are without bitterness or paranoia.
It means being able to evaluate challenging situations in life, and then being quick to take mature, decisive action.
It means having the strength to do your own thing while encouraging others to do theirs as well.
But okay... how do you go about getting this kind of cool for YOURSELF?
First off, it's critical that you start PUSHING YOURSELF and TRYING NEW THINGS.
Because, fact is, the only way to TRULY be cool in ANY situation is to have faced a SIMILAR SITUATION at some time in the past.
The more experiences you can gather in your life, the greater the chances that you'll come across as cool in a FUTURE situation.
And -- most importantly -- you'll automatically "be cool" in situations that present themselves while you're with that great woman you want as a girlfriend!
So get out there and start experiencing new stuff IMMEDIATELY...
Maybe you want to learn more about different types of wine. Or maybe foreign movies.
Maybe you can start playing ice hockey instead of just shooting hoops all the time.
Do you understand ANYTHING about fashion? Have you ever even HEARD of Frank Sinatra?
I think you get the message.