Male animals go through precise mating movements, without rehearsing them. This is called the "mating dance". Female animals can formulate judgments on whatever they do, and from there evaluate their genetic potential and decide who to mate with. This is not learned but hardwired from birth. There is such a thing as a human mating dance, or in other words, specific courtship moves that humans go through, just like animals do. Most men, including those who are pretty good with women, are unaware of this process. Most women, on the other hand, understand this. The key in this human dance is to learn how to use your body, and how to go from one step to the next.