I can’t emphasize this enough. It’s very hard to get good at something if practicing is no fun. This is especially true in Love Systems, since having good energy, good body language, and sub-communications are so important. If you’re not having fun, she won’t have fun talking to you, and you’ll have even less fun. It’s a vicious circle.
But it can be a virtuous circle if you are having fun – then women want to be a part of your energy. So, find ways to make Love Systems fun for you: go to places you enjoy, with people you like. In addition to learning how to be a good wingman, play games with your wingmen to keep approaching fun. Don’t take yourself too seriously, allow yourself to be silly and make mistakes. Use silly openers just for the sake of having a good time. Fun is attractive.