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Sunday, July 21, 2013

The Myth of Playing the Numbers

99% of guys using online dating or social media sites to meet women online are playing a numbers game. They typically send messages to tens of women, hoping that one of them will work out.
What this leads to is them cutting and pasting an identical message to send to each one. It also means that they have checked out her photos - and spent 1 minute at most checking out her profile. What they read in the profile they immediately forgot, or was irrelevant to the message they sent to her.
The result - 95% of communications that go nowhere. Taking a sales analogy here - at that rate of converting leads that would get you fired from any sales job INSTANTLY.
Getting results from playing the numbers game online is a MYTH.
You need to focus on a maximum of 4 or 5 communications with women per session (and that's considering a couple of hours time investment).
Find out who she really is, and send her a personalized message that will make you stand out from the 'spam fest' attacking the best women's inboxes. Read her profile. Understand it. Think about who she is. Communicate to that.

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