- An indirect opener – You can approach the girl and ask her where something is like a coffee shop or landmark. An interesting study that was conducted in the book “Mating Intelligence Unleashed” said that most women prefer an indirect approach over a direct approach.
- A direct opener – A more direct approach would be telling her what you’re thinking… for example: “Excuse me, I just saw you from over there and I had to come over and say something because you’re very cute”.
- A forced IOI – This is known as a warm opener and something I use all the time which works perfect in clubs/bars. You basically make eye contact with the girl, do something that will make her smile and then approach her when you see her give you a positive reaction.
BE AUTHORITATIVE AND CONFIDENT
The quickest way to kill the approach is to act needy, desperate or nervous. Remember that the girl doesn’t know what you’re going to say. So you need to convey your interest with eye contact and body language.
- Keep strong eye contact – Strong eye contact is a huge attraction builder. Coupled with a lower voice tonality and speaking more slowly, you can speed up attraction, comfort and trust.
- Maintain good body language – By puffing your chest out, pulling your shoulders back and maintaining an alpha stance you will come across as a leader or authoritative person, so she will be more susceptible… meaning she’ll stay and listen.
BE TIME CONSCIOUS
Letting her know that you’re a busy guy does two things… the first is she won’t feel the need to run away because you’re bothering her and secondly it will cause an attraction spike that will intrigue her.
- Throw in a time constraint – The very first thing you want to do is say something like “I’ve only got a minute because I’m meeting my friends, but I had to say…”.
- Keep them talking with a “I’ve gotta go…” line – This keeps them talking without feeling the need to end the conversation first. It’s amazing how long you can do this for. So just keep saying “One more thing before I go…”
So that’s it Alphas, just use this simple secrets that I use to approach any type of girl in both the daytime and evening (clubs, bars etc). Now go out and put these to good use… practice, practice…. practice.