Seeing 3, 4 even 5 or more girls at once is actually a skill in itself. Not only do you have to juggle each girl and keep them happy, you also need to keep things so that each girl doesn’t find out about the other girl… causing a ball ache of a situation for you!
Also as long as you are honest, every step of the way with each of the girls, then there is not reason why it should backfire in your face.
8 tips for multiple long term relationships:
1. COMFORT AND HONESTY
If you’re not honest, people will get hurt and it’s also confusing. It’s very hard to keep up a lie, so it’s best that you don’t tell one in the first place.
2. BUILD COMFORT
Comfort and trust needs to be the foundation of your interactions with girls you want to date… obviously, so you need to work on connecting with her on an emotional level, rather than just building intense sexual attraction and boinking her on the first night.
3. “I’M SEEING SOMEONE ELSE”
If she asks, tell her you’re seeing other girls. Otherwise don’t tell her, because it could lead to complications. What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her, so keep it quiet.
4. SEXUALLY ESCALATE “SLOWLY”
Any sexual escalation needs to be initiated on the day 2 not on day 1. Arrange to meet with her a couple of days after your first meeting and start escalating then, so that she starts to feel a connection between you both.
5. GIVE TIME TO EACH GIRL, BUT SPREAD IT OUT
Make them want to see you more, this helps build attraction when they keep thinking about you and building you up in their mind. It also means you don’t give too much away too fast.
6. USE THE WORD “FRIENDS”
If you use the term girlfriend to any of the girls you are seeing, then they will start to become territorial and you may even begin to think about them differently which isn’t good if you want this multiple long term relationship thing to work.
7. LET HER KNOW WHERE YOU STAND
If you play this right, one of the girls you are dating will eventually get the hump and want to see you exclusively. If you don’t want that, then you need to either let her know that you’re not interested in a relationship or let her go… because it’s just not worth the hassle.
8. DON’T OVER INVEST
Don’t ask too many questions or let them know TOO MUCH about you. This will keep them on their toes, you won’t fall under the same category as regular guys then because you’re not predictable.